ansharihbasri posted: " When are you most happy? i think one of the ways to live in the now is by realizing: every choice, whether it was of the past or of the future, is all made in the now. i thought i'd be "happy" when i finally lose weight. but i realized it wasn't lo" A Random Someone's Notes right here, right now. ansharihbasri Dec 21 When are you most happy? i think one of the ways to live in the now is by realizing: every choice, whether it was of the past or of the future, is all made in the now. i thought i'd be "happy" when i finally lose weight. but i realized it wasn't losing the weight (or being overweight) itself that bothers me: it's the fact that i fear i have no control over my, say, weight, and more broadly, the fear of losing control in anything important in my life. but of course i'd "lose" control over something like weight: it's too much to handle at once! but when i realized controlling weight is about what i eat or burn right now, just right now, well, maybe it's a bit more manageable. and more happy. Comment Like You can also reply to this email to leave a comment. Manage your email settings or unsubscribe.

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