Men

Chanzy

Nov 2

What's something you believe everyone should know.

And "Why Does He Do That?" By Lundy Bancroft is a great freaking book. Also Trauma and Recovery by Judith Lewis Herman.

Therapy is not your enemy. Or frivolous. Therapy is necessary. We all have problems and even with close family ties most to many people need someone qualified to talk to about their life. All people should go, even if you don't feel like you need it. Just to see. You never know.

My first round of therapy took years. That was connecting the dots on my past. Things have happened since that need addressing. I can't actually afford therapy right now. But I stopped going by choice. I had trouble feeling like I was connecting with this super-talented doctor. She was very good, I felt like I was boring her most of the time with my hum drum because I couldn't break through the last few years to get to the good stuff. An insurance issue lead to me abruptly canceling an appointment but the non insurance rate was so high I was ready to vomit and I just panicked and bolted and we're good about it, and I have wanted to go back to Her- I'll probably seek out a better fit. We had one of the best conversations we ever had when I decided to stop and I was like- "well damn" I don't want to stop either, but I (anyone) cannot afford the uninsured rate. Not even once.😮‍💨 it's the Truth.

I liked Her, Too.

Goddamn I want a boyish lesbian so bad.

BEHAVE

No nonsense

Gay Men should be nicer to Lesbians. Lesbians love us before the others accept us and long after they throw us away, is what it is. They are Gay Mothers. And I love everyone. They are Mother.

I love drag queens and drags queens love lesbians. And we all love Lucy Lawless.

That made me think of a Friend who said they had a crush on Her earlier this week. 🫣😂 I love hearing that name in conversation-Yes.

I have some really fucking cool news but I'm keeping it to myself until afterwards.😈

I love You and yes you do deserve to know.

That one is mine for now.