God Factor In Marriage; Naked And Not Ashamed! Part 5
"I HAVE come into my garden, my sister, my [promised] bride; I have gathered my myrrh with my balsam and spice [from your sweet words I have gathered the richest perfumes and spices]. I have eaten my honeycomb with my honey; I have drunk my wine with my milk. Eat, O friends [feast on, O revelers of the palace; you can never make my lover disloyal to me]! Drink, yes, drink abundantly of love, O precious one [for now I know you are mine, irrevocably mine! With his confident words still thrilling her heart, through the lattice she saw her shepherd turn away and disappear into the night]. [John 16:33.] I went to sleep, but my heart stayed awake. [I dreamed that I heard] the voice of my beloved as he knocked [at the door of my mother's cottage]. Open to me, my sister, my love, my dove, my spotless one [he said], for I am wet with the [heavy] night dew; my hair is covered with it. [Job 11:13-15.] [But weary from a day in the vineyards, I had already sought my rest] I had put off my garment–how could I [again] put it on? I had washed my feet–how could I [again] soil them? [Isa. 32:9; Heb. 3:15.] My beloved put in his hand by the hole of the door, and my heart was moved for him. I rose up to open for my beloved, and my hands dripped with myrrh, and my fingers with liquid [sweet-scented] myrrh, [which he had left] upon the handles of the bolt. I opened for my beloved, but my beloved had turned away and withdrawn himself, and was gone! My soul went forth [to him] when he spoke, but it failed me [and now he was gone]! I sought him, but I could not find him; I called him, but he gave me no answer. The watchmen who go about the city found me. They struck me, they wounded me; the keepers of the walls took my veil and my mantle from me. I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, if you find my beloved, that you tell him that I am sick from love [simply sick to be with him]. [Ps. 63:1.] What is your beloved more than another beloved, O you fairest among women [taunted the ladies]? What is your beloved more than another beloved, that you should give us such a charge? [John 10:26.] [She said] My beloved is fair and ruddy, the chief among ten thousand! [Ps. 45:2; John 1:14.] His head is [as precious as] the finest gold; his locks are curly and bushy and black as a raven. His eyes are like doves beside the water brooks, bathed in milk and fitly set. His cheeks are like a bed of spices or balsam, like banks of sweet herbs yielding fragrance. His lips are like bloodred anemones or lilies distilling liquid [sweet-scented] myrrh. His hands are like rods of gold set with [nails of] beryl or topaz. His body is a figure of bright ivory overlaid with [veins of] sapphires. His legs are like strong and steady pillars of marble set upon bases of fine gold. His appearance is like Lebanon, excellent, stately, and majestic as the cedars. His voice and speech are exceedingly sweet; yes, he is altogether lovely [the whole of him delights and is precious]. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem! [Ps. 92:15; Col. 1:15.]"
Song of Solomon 5:1-16 AMPC
This morning we continue with the thematic differences with regards the needs of men and women sexually. A man is designed to be the aggressor generally and mostly men have higher libido than women. It is for good reason too. A man is designed to go look for and romantically woo his bride. Sin and societal influences have numbed the capacity of men and women. Now roles are not as ordered as they were originally designed to be. In Africa of old boys are removed from their mothers at a certain age so that the fathers begin to instill the steel needed to make a true man. They learn to hunt, to farm and a variety of activities that strengthen them and then finally the passage unto manhood test comes along. These we don't have today so boys are becoming girls because wars have left society with women to fend for generations of men. It has brought us all to this point we see today. The sad testament of coward, and men whose word can't be held as a life time bond or beyond one's life time.
So we see the beautiful dance of foreplay in the last chapter and this one opens with same. After a hard day and the play began she played the hard to get journey on the man and even after the fingering as described here where he got to where he wanted penetrative sex attempting to unlock the nectar within which had covered his hands on that precious lock. The hard to get dance left him drained as he had knocked on her vagina with his fingers and now the semen Ladened head he described as his locks covered with dew. He left angrily as this often is the case for many a man. Most women never realize that this diminishes their self confidence. It makes them want to go around trying and they soon end up with the easy woman of virtue. By this time we are all regretting it. It makes the man cover the wrong person and at that leaves his spouse exposed to be covered by vagabonds. Her veil was taken by the guards on the street. Her virtue probably stolen by criminals and today we call them rapist, bandits etc.
As bliss filled as this sounds we are rightly reminded of Jesus and his disciples at Gethsemane where Jesus tried to keep them awake to watch and pray but they slept like the bride and we are soon seeing that the crowd that would arrest Jesus come asking questions. While the bride needed to stay alert she slept and wanted to sleep so Solomon left and we soon find ourselves at that cross road where Peter wanted to take laws in his hands. He would later die a similar death as the Christ but chose to die upside down. You see men need sex, women do not understand that it keeps their mental stability and makes them virile to stand within society and chase the goals they ought to chase. Men will kill and be killed for that sacred nectar women carry. His ego can quickly die and make him weak if he does not get his nookie! The decision making of such men who are starved of sex is clear for all to see. They are slow to take decisions and this leads to losing opportunities.
Today we have men with dysfunctions which means women are forced to rise and lead. Deborah was not meant to lead but the weakness of a man whose ego was probably down because of his poor sexual experience could not decide or lead his people. He could not get his mojo to kill a king and soon he was not remembered but we are bequeathed with the legacy of Deborah. She was great and her prophetic unction. But an emasculated man is the worst thing that can happen. They are called two minute men today. But many a woman do not realize that unless it is a biological or better put medical condition, they have the control and capacity to heal that man. One actress had tasted so many mojos she missed out on her best opportunity to have and keep a man. She screamed to the Nigerian populace that he was a minute man further damaging his ego that was already suffering. As a sextologist there are techniques she could have used to heal this man but alas she chose to go after other mojos. Is she at peace? Certainly not as she has removed herself from a quality cover. I'm not sure but she is probably seeking to be covered even today. Had she sought simple help she would be with her good man and be enjoying as he unlocks her key. She needed to lead and break his tension as that was the underlying problem. She also needed to remove herself and himself from the performance tale that the porn industry and Hollywood have sold folk. Sex as we see in porn movies does not suit the true lovemaking journey God designed us to enjoy. In fact it is a sport not the wam bang thesis we are given. It can be gentle, it can be fast, it could be a bit rough or adventurous but it all boils down to doing it with the one you are designed and fit together with. No other format gives true satisfaction. Instead you have an after taste and longing never ever satisfied. Why not break that blood tie today so that you can both be naked and unashamed enjoying true love and lovemaking as God designed? God bless as many who seek to break blood ties as they enter the saving grace of Jesus sacrifice on the cross for our sins in Jesus name I declare! Amen and Amen! Shalom
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