Choir colleague found a room for himself and moved out of my place. He was a no problem roommate during this 6-days stay.
I think there's still some material for me to think on, because I witnesssed the end of his relationship. It's not something I wanted to see... Yet, I didn't have problem with helping the 'bad guy' cheating on his partner. We all make mistakes, some of us even learn from them. Using your 'moral standards' as an excuse not to help someone is quite inconsistent to me.
The other thing is, that I've been in such type of situation - middle of the night, no place to go.... Shared it here for sure, long time ago... In a different life.
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Spent a lovely day with friends from the choir yesterday. We were cooking, talking, making origami, that one of girls taught us.
It's strange that source of some of the best experiences in the past two years (joining the choir and living in its community) has been caused by a very stressful and disappointing encounter.
I'm not sure if I should be grateful to this guy for deceiving me, but it's now easier for me to accept everything that happened.
In the end, result is very good. Probably better than our relationship could have been.
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But in this fairy tale there is some part that makes me wonder what to do.
Two months ago piano player moved in to a flat below me. When I work from home (so, like 90% of the time), or want to take a nap he's practicing. It drives me crazy at times. I like my current flat despite some flaws, but this one is very problematic case. My lease agreement ends in December, extending it would mean my daily concerts.
On the other hand lease market went crazy this year. Smaller flats in some far away places cost more or less the same amount as the current one. For a similar standard I'd have to pay few hundreds, or even one thousand more, which is ridiculous price to me.
Still have 4 weeks to think about it, but I'm not sure what to do...
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