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Site logo image rheadopmeijer posted: " Summer is a state of mind How is it we all yearn for the Sum­mer to ar­rive, when we live in those ar­eas where we ex­pe­ri­ence dif­fer­ent sea­sons? The way we look at this time of year is col­ored by the way the 4 sea­sons work. It also rep­" What is Love?

Summer is a state of mind

rheadopmeijer

Aug 4

Summer is a state of mind

How is it we all yearn for the Sum­mer to ar­rive, when we live in those ar­eas where we ex­pe­ri­ence dif­fer­ent sea­sons? The way we look at this time of year is col­ored by the way the 4 sea­sons work.

It also rep­re­sents our hol­i­day sea­son in the west­ern world. It will be ex­pe­ri­enced in a to­tally dif­fer­ent way when you live in coun­tries with a rainy sea­son and flood­ing, or in desert coun­tries, where the tem­per­a­ture is al­ways high dur­ing day­time.

 In or­der to ex­pe­ri­ence the im­pact, the change of the sea­son has on your own sys­tem, you must be aware of the place you are liv­ing. Af­ter the Spring where every plant, the tree is com­ing back to live with flow­ers and leaves, we move into summer. With the har­vest time as well for the farm­ers of their fields of grain. Or the har­vest of grapes to be­come wine. Sum­mer is some­thing we ex­pe­ri­ence be­cause the tem­per­a­ture rises.

 It al­lows us to live more out­side our homes, in our gar­dens, at the lakes and sea­side. It al­lows us to ex­pe­ri­ence the nat­ural way of liv­ing with na­ture. When we are walk­ing through the forests and watch­ing the hillsides with the green and yel­low col­ors. It is cre­at­ing a dif­fer­ent state of mind. It changes the per­spec­tive the most when we are tak­ing time to take it in.

 Breathe the fresh­ness of the forests, the smell of the ocean, the wind blow­ing through your hair. The senses are stim­u­lated in a pro­found way. We ex­pect dif­fer­ent out­comes dur­ing sum­mer­time, the weather is a great part of this. With high tem­per­a­ture, the risks for health is­sues are big­ger as well.

 If we don't take care of our body dur­ing the times we stay out­side, the im­pact of the Sun may cre­ate is­sues. So, we need to be con­scious about the way we act and re­act to the changes of the sea­sons. It is not just about the phys­i­cal as­pect; it is also about the way we are af­fected on an emo­tional level as well.

Sum­mer­time, how many songs haven't been writ­ten about it? The way we re­act to oth­er people is also de­signed by the way we dress. The food we eat, the way na­ture pro­vides us with her abun­dance dur­ing this sea­son. Mu­sic plays a part as well. How can it not? All our senses are touched dur­ing this sea­son. The way we feel, sense, love, breathe, and live is col­ored by the way we re­ceive the en­ergy of Sum­mer.

 The mind also play­ing a big role in this in­ter­ac­tion with each other. What do you as­so­ci­ate with sum­mer? How were your ex­pe­ri­ences dur­ing sum­mer times, grow­ing up as a child? What did you do dur­ing hol­i­day times? Some peo­ple have bad ex­pe­ri­ences dur­ing sum­mer­time. Not every­one has gone on holiday, for in­stance. Some fam­i­lies don't have the money or the lux­ury to go away in or­der to have a hol­i­day. Within their own coun­try, or oth­er­wise.

 Grow­ing up as a kid, the way you ex­pe­ri­enced summer, it sets the way you per­ceive this sea­son. The mind has set the way you are re­act­ing or act­ing to­wards the hol­i­day sea­son, or the way na­ture act­ing out dur­ing this sea­son with tor­nado's, storms and heavy rain­fall.

 Some sum­mers were wet and cold, did­n't live up to the ex­pec­ta­tions. Dis­ap­point­ment when the weather was­n't what you wanted it to be. For farm­ers as well, when there is a dis-bal­ance with na­ture, so their crops were not all it could have been.

 Grow­ing up in a coun­try with lots of wet sum­mer days, as well high tem­per­a­ture with hu­mid­ity, sum­mers could be chal­leng­ing. It de­pended on the way we were able to spend it, how we would per­ceive sum­mer. Once you let go of ex­pec­ta­tions about how you would like the sum­mer to be, your mind comes to rest. Ac­cep­tance comes with it, to color each day as it comes. En­joy­ing the com­pany, the scenery, the tem­per­a­tures, the is­sues. For these are be­ing trig­gered as well.

 Once you spend time to­gether free from work, in your own home en­vi­ron­ment, or out somewhere else, through the lack of pres­sure, shifts hap­pen. We all know how peo­ple go on hol­i­day, hav­ing a heart at­tack the first days, or ar­gu­ing all sum­mer with their part­ner.

 The ex­pec­ta­tion of not hav­ing to work, just to re­lax, let it all go, is­n't al­ways pre­sent the out­come you had made up your mind about. Let­ting go of all con­trol is­n't al­ways the best way to re­lax or find some free­dom to be with­out wor­ries.

 We have this vi­sion in our mind, how we want our free spare time dur­ing the sum­mer days should be. Which is­n't al­ways met through re­al­ity. Not from ex­ter­nal fac­tors al­ways. Also, through our in­ter­nal fac­tors which play a ma­jor part in the way you per­ceive sum­mer­time.

 It's a per­sonal jour­ney, based on many factors, if our sum­mer is per­ceived as some­thing mag­i­cal and joy­ful. Our own mind­set is the base for our per­cep­tion as well, as ex­pec­ta­tions. Sum­mer haze may be a warm, comfy blan­ket wrapped around your shoul­ders.

 It can be ro­man­tic with walks on the beach or prom­e­nade, with lay­ing in the grass on a plaid dur­ing pic­nic time. It can be all that you want it to be. With the right mind­set, you can cre­ate a mag­i­cal sum­mer. Now there is no right, nor wrong for that mat­ter. It is about the pos­i­tive en­ergy you can bring to the table when it con­cerns your vi­sion about sum­mer. Love and light bring in the bal­ance be­tween the ex­pe­ri­ence and the mind­set.

 With that be­ing said, I want to wish you all the best Summer with your loved ones. En­joy your qual­ity time to­gether, work through the nec­es­sary is­sues with love and con­fi­dence. Find com­fort in the to­geth­er­ness as well. Bring in the pos­i­tive en­ergy to­gether to cre­ate a har­mo­nious and lov­ing time well spent.

 Love will cre­ate the best mind­set ever to have the most won­der­ful sum­mer of your life. Every time and every mo­ment can be trea­sured as a gift.

 And so it will be

High Self @RheaD­op­mei­jer ©

Heart­felt Messages, June 3rd, 2019

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