Larney posted: " Mean sis had to go to theatre to surgically remove her wisdom teeth. This is all in an attempt to get her Hollywood smile. I got braces, so did she, except her teeth have suffered from being bulimic and the stomach acid chowed most of it so she needs a w" Oh Larney!
Mean sis had to go to theatre to surgically remove her wisdom teeth. This is all in an attempt to get her Hollywood smile. I got braces, so did she, except her teeth have suffered from being bulimic and the stomach acid chowed most of it so she needs a whole other cosmetic teeth thingy to fix her teeth. So I drove her to the hospital, bought her a 'good luck' stuffed unicorn. All went fine, I've been playing nurse, fed her in hospital, cooked mash and gravy and set MY alarms to give her her pills on time, changed ice pack, even called in sick at work, for 2 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just to take care of her.
She's 38y 8months!
I'm her enabler right? That's why she's so clingy!
I've created this monster that never wants to share me with the world, it really is my fault. But if I had somewhere to go, she would have pulled the 'you hate me' card. The words 'you care more for other people' are always on her lips!
Our relationship is off balance. She swings from being my mom to being my child, nowhere is she my sister, older sis at that.
Today is my late sis' daughter's 16th birthday, I'm planning on taking her and friends out to the movies and lunch... I have to find an excuse because mean sis will want to tag along and that will be an extra mouth to 'feed'. I use inverted commas because she will order what she wont eat, complain she's tired, force to drink while on meds, fight with my nephew, piss my older sis off, fight with waiters and just ruin the day for everyone. No thanks.
The Dr explained that she must have soft food for 2 days or so for the stiches to heal... I find her eating lays crisps, saying she craves them.... this is her usual diet, she weighed 46kg on that hospital scale! When we got to the hospital she cried saying she feels like she's going to give birth... Giving birth is a matter of life and death!! How do you even compare?? There were kids in that ward for the same procedure as her... Plus, we didn't spend even a night in that hospital, unlike giving birth... Sigh! drama on 100% always, exhausting. I bet she started drinking when I returned to work, you know what? It's her life.
Ive prayed about this for a long time.... I always have to filter what I say or say nothing at all but the world, even my older sister, don't let her get away with murder. One time some girl slapped mean sis because she said something rude... I tell her she lacks social skills and she says she's a straight talker, told her it would get her killed. She lives in a bubble where she rules the world, except she doesn't. She's a snob, the real meaning of a snob. She looks down on people she considers 'low class' and she worships people she thinks have money. She's sick in the head. One day, my well-off cousin hosted a braai and and later that eveing some guy come through... random chats in between and mean sis asked him 'who do you think you are? look at me and look at you, you are a nobody...' My older sis pushed mean sis in the kitchen because that 'other guy' was actually my well-off cousins SON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We had to leave because it got awkward, and mean sis said we don't have her back if we don't block everyone at the braai!
I've prayed for a way for her to find independency and common decency but ... Sigh
Just wanted to vent
This one time my other cousin invited us to another braai and asked us what we want to drink, the general courtesy is to name a cider.. but mean sis said she wanted wine... A very expensive wine that she didn't even have in the house... Then when we got there, she complained why they bought only one bottle, then there was no opener and I almost lost a finger trying to get it open with a screwdriver. She didn't even have a gift.
God find a way. When I told her about a potenial job 2 hour flight away she didn't wish me luck. She said 'I'll live my own life and leave you all alone' ????
What will happen when me and Untiled get married? She already comments 20 times when a couple breaks up, on some, 'nothing lasts forever' 'why do people get married, YOU must never get married' she already said 'Don't make a baby'..........
Sigh!
God, sort this dysfunctionality. This person feels it's ok to say 'I wish you guys could break up'
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