'I love you but I don't want to have sex. So what?'

Relationship malpractice, where everyone is funding their own games. You think? . . . People want their own successful taste.

"Hi babe, am Lasisi and I really like you. Can we really get to know each other?"

"Well, why do you want us to know each other?"

"Because you're sexy and I really want to enter there!"

"Enter where?"

"Am thinking about having sex babe!"

"Having sex? You better find your type. You think am a slut?"

"Well, I thought being honest is the best."

"Then fuck off!"

And I did fuck off.

Moral of story: Not everyone want what you want. And the best way to avoid wasting the bunch beautiful taste of your time is to get the fuck-out when you think you're not going to get what you want. You play game and people play game so, there's nothing wrong about that. The only stupid act of yours is to allow anyone to use you. If you realize they're withholding anything that you think is special to you, and you voice it out, and instead of giving each other the necessary stuff, they prefer to toil around and waste bountiful of times, you better play wise of using tactics. Not everyone or everything deserve your best time. Be wise!

It took me so many years to finally realize there's plenty wrong with dating. And in fact, people play game in marriages. So rest assured; your game wouldn't be out-of-date unless you're not replenishing it. And for you not to replenish it mean you're getting complacent, and getting complacent mean people gonna use you. And the more the used you, the more they deprived you what you really need. Because once you get what you want, rest assured, you gonna dump them. For this reason, people of the both parties now play game according to their own wants. Let just call it "Dating Amoeba".

"You're dating someone for almost a year and yet you didn't have sex. Are you both waiting for God's time or someone is wasting the bunch beautiful time of your said partner?"

"You think she love you and yet when you're walking down the street she refused to hold hands. Well, maybe she's shy and she didn't want people to be seeing that childish act? . . . Okay then, keep up the good work. You'll soon realize your stupid mistakes."

"My girl never date another man. I really love her and she loves me to. Those guys are just bunch of betas who can't even lay egg on her talk of touching her. They're just friends. Okay, man of hope. Dream on!"

When you're in relationship or you're in dating, you better "hope for the best and prepare for the worst" because most of your relationship won't end well. And if one did, rest assured, both party face the reality. So face the reality! Know what you want and make sure the other party is there without compromising each others want.

The problem is when you want a serious relationship and your partner can only care less. All she wants is a man who can take care of her without getting notice. Wake up! You're not the right person for each other.

You're there trying different women like whisky and this girl happened to be one of them and she keeps on pestering you to come and visit her parents. You keep on scheming and scheming in the hope of not wanting to loose her and yet you're not ready for anything serious. Man, I thought you've gat to work on your better behavior, it's better to lose her now before it's too late. Because once you make it late, you might come back regretting yourself.

'I date women I shouldn't have dated. And yet am telling myself it's okay. What kind "OK" is that?'

Be smart in your thinking. Not every man is ready to take you and not every woman are there to take care of you. Most of our relationships are all fucked. We're not communicating reality again and again. So be prepared to lie and lied to. That's all.

"You mean I gotta lie and people gonna lie to me?"

Correct! Lie or be lied to. Simple as a, b, c.

"When you're in dating, not every girls will like you. And those that didn't liked you might even pretend to like you. So instead of you jumping and smiling because you find your real niche, be sensible enough to play hard and see if she really up to what she's pretending to be. And hey, try to spend less money on girls, most of them ain't really worth it."

Most girls are not really interested in you, so be smart to know what she really wants. And if you couldn't detect any hint, play dumb but be vigilant at all costs. You just can't afford any stupid woman to take advantage of you.

Be wise!

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