No matter what anyone has said or did, let us understand the thing. What happened was wrong, and what was said was wrong, but understand this. Forgiving is right. Also, don't believe the lies of the enemy. You are who you are. We all are. Understand that you don't need to be anyone else. What God made is perfect. Understand that people will do their best to bring you down. Understand that if you are down,, you don't have to stay down.. Understand that the enemy is out to steal, kill, and destroy, but you are a child of the Most High. You are a child of God, so understand that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. Love yourself, and best believe that God loves you.