Narcissists have no permanent psychologies as they keep on alternating their behaviour to suit their goal, for example, they may act nice to become your girlfriend and then hurt you later. So, they are not always rude and mean.

Here are however, common signs of a narcissist:

  • They are very charming. They have the right words to say.
  • They are very good at deception. They can be nice, lively and charismatic just to get into your life.
  • They are very conniving. They know how to get you to go against someone innocent.
  • They gossip. This they cannot hide. They may be charming but they gossip a lot.
  • They belittle others a lot.
  • They tend to have inflated egos.
  • They hate being pushed to the corner with the truth.
  • They have superficial relationships. That means that, you are together but never really together.
  • They can really brag and pull you down.
  • They have both superiority and inferiority complexes. The superior one will act like they are better than everybody while the inferior one will give you emotional baggage that will make you sad.
  • They gaslight a lot.
  • Everything is your fault, hardly theirs.
  • They are very controlling and demanding.

The list goes on and on and on.


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