| There is an old saying in couples therapy circles. We often attract what is void in us. |
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| | | | How to Avoid Attracting What's Missing in You: | There is an old saying in couples therapy circles. We often attract what is void in us. Yet, later the very thing that attracted you to that person becomes an issue later in the relationship. The saying mentioned at the start of this article highlights how we unconsciously seek partners with attributes we believe we lack. Those of us who battle with self-assurance may find ourselves drawn to someone who is aggressive. Someone who is disciplined may give us solace in the event that we are lacking structure. In the beginning, these characteristics might make us feel excited and complementary. It seems as if the other person "completes" us. This usually happens in the honeymoon period... | | | | |
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Dr. Nicholas Jenner Counselling Psychotherapist |
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Boundaries of The SoulTherapy and Counselling Ltd71 -75 Shelton street, WC2H 9JQ, London, UK. |
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