Submission has been a recurring thought in my mind. In today's society, many women are encouraged to adopt more delicate and feminine personas. However, they often lack the necessary circumstances that allow them to entirely surrender control and place their faith in another person who genuinely cares for them.
In my opinion, the majority of women have encountered men who naturally evoke their submissive side and others who amplify their masculine energy. Thus, they can differentiate between these two types of men based on how they perceive themselves with them. Women comprehend that relinquishing control comes easily when they trust someone to take charge but struggle to do so if a man has not exhibited that he'll be there for support in times of need.
When faced with an unsafe environment, submission is not a viable option for us. If a man does not take charge by making decisions or calling out our misbehavior while providing emotional, financial and psychological support as well as teaching us valuable life lessons, we cannot trust him entirely or believe that everything will be alright if we yield to his authority. Under those circumstances, it's impossible for women to submit confidently.
We aspire to be gentle, relinquishing control and having faith in our partner's abilities. Many women have grown up with single mothers or female leaders in their households, making submission an unfamiliar concept. It requires rewiring one's mindset by disregarding societal expectations and adapting to the present time period. In order for a woman to trust her man completely, he must exhibit highly masculine traits such as self-awareness, dominance, strength while feeling safe displaying both his feminine and masculine energies; undertaking inner growth work is also essential. The autonomous modern-day woman will only submit herself if she encounters a male figure who can counterbalance her masculinity - which has become exceedingly rare nowadays.
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