Will She Take My Love For Granted? … 4

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June 14

Continued from https://pdlionunlimited.wordpress.com/2024/06/13/will-she-take-my-love-for-granted-3/

Again, consider how God loved us. Eternally in love with humanity, God's love was taken for granted, rejected, and ignored generation after generation. But God helped us to have a new appreciation for his love by presenting himself in a form that we would understand - he took on flesh. He did that not really so that he can know what it's like to be human; in his omniscience, he already knew that. His aim for coming in the flesh was so that we would be able to comprehend him and understand his love for us. Understanding love languages comes in handy here. Cos, you might think you are loving her while it is really not registering as anything significant to her.

Another thing you can do is to change things up from time to time. Novelty has appeal. Appeal has value. Value gets respect. If you look back, you will remember that you and your friends noticed the new girl in your class, in your fellowship, or in your workplace, almost to the extent that she became the definition of beauty, and anyone who had access to her suddenly became important to you because they could potentially get you an audience with her. It is the same with the ladies. The new guy almost always becomes the coolest, most handsome guy, which is one of the reasons guys clean up and look nice when they want to approach a lady. We believe that if she sees us looking nice in a way she has not seen us before, it will improve our chances with her. It's the same thing here.

Do new things to yourself and to her. Do old things in new ways. Present yourself in new ways. Try new things by yourself and together. I mention yourself here because if you are not experiencing life in new ways, it will be hard for you to have novelty in your relationship with her. You cannot give what you don't have. Jesus said it this way, "Love your neighbour as you love yourself." If you don't love yourself, you may admire others, be infatuated with them, or befriend them, but you can never truly love them.

As I was saying, see her in a new light. As I said before, the new girl is often the most appealing. Make her a "new girl" as often as you can. How you do that is to create new circumstances around her so that you can see her in that new light. This is where gifts come in, especially those gifts that make her look the way you like to see her, such as clothes, and fashion accessories.

To be continued.

Daniel Oyanna is a conference speaker on relationships, health, faith and other subjects and a Pastor and teacher blessed by God with a grace to make things easy to understand. He is the author of the book To Date or Not to Date, Instructions in Submission, Crushing the Crushers, several mini-books most of which are free. He started UnLimited to help people reach their God-given goals by walking with them to their finish line. He is reachable at pd_lionunlimited@yahoo.com