Share your love and be loved

rheadopmeijer

June 5

Share your love and be loved. This is a phrase I see daily. At first, it was posted on the wall in our former home when entering our home. Now it is on my table, next to the lights and cards I received after Herman made his transition.

At one point it was placed somewhere else, and I missed it, so I placed it back again on the table. Why is this so important to me? How important is this also in our relationship with each other as well, as between the two of us? The importance of having this inner relationship within ourselves as a result of sharing our love for one another.

Even still today, years later, sometimes a remark reminds me of something or a period in our life that wasn't always easy. It is shown in the way people can judge and keep holding on to a belief or grudge they hold.

The first thing I learned was the importance of letting go of grudges, for they always were obstructing my flow of free love and care. It didn't matter if it was something connected to someone else or something I did.

Holding a grudge is obstructive. It will always cast a shadow. More importantly, even when other people hold a grudge against me, the negative energy can influence my own well-being. So to me, it is very important to let go of any grudges I might hold.

To know we all are on our journey together and connected with each other, makes a big difference as well. Over the years with every encounter I have had, either with family members or at work, what tends to stick is the negativity by treatment.

When this isn't done out of Love, we all get bruised along the way. We choose our family and our parents because, from the soul's perspective, they are the most qualified to teach us to expand our qualities and learn from life experiences through the fear, anger, sorrow, and insecurity that only one thing matters in the end. Love is and will always be the only key.

Maybe not throughout our lifetime, we are always able to learn, how to let go and release those anxious emotions or fears of being betrayed, or hurt in any way.

Sometimes we have these intense and hectic experiences that work like a slap on the wrist or a highlight, to wake up. Sometimes illness and death create these turn-around lifetime experiences. Going through this whole process of letting go of abilities and working through every layer backward, will leave us naked and bared.

Yet when the heart is filled with love, we can also embrace every encounter and even the little precious moments that bring joy and gratitude, at the same time. These are the moments when you love and share it with your loved ones. In return, they will give back the love they hold for you.

So: share your love and be loved.