It's your fault? If you had just listened everything would have been done. Why did you do this? How are we going to manage? When will you do it? Who did this? How , when , why, who, questions that remain a complicated answer. Never straightforward and i…  | Mansi Chaturvedi 7th Jun | It's your fault? If you had just listened everything would have been done. Why did you do this? How are we going to manage? When will you do it? Who did this? How , when , why, who, questions that remain a complicated answer. Never straightforward and if they are then you have so much more to hear and say. We all have been in this situation sometimes in our lives. We seldom do things on our own , mostly we do it because we listened to someone. This someone who never owns up is their fault because when he says things in a mess he himself starts questioning you. You get cornered by all for just trusting the support of someone who just landed you in trouble. Hasn't this happened to you? So what do you do then? Again I ask you a question what, yes what will you do then? You stay confused and if you even speak the truth nobody believes.
What happens if things go right? Then there are so many to take credit for. They even own up that it worked because they helped you and guided you. Strange but true, this is life where the tears leave you alone and the joys bring you together. These questions then come into your mind. Who do you trust? What did I do wrong? Why am I the scapegoat all the time. In both situations no one agrees that you did it yourself or you were asked to do it.
The blame game, victims are we to the trust we build on someone who is not trustworthy at all. Had I done it right you were all praise and if it went wrong , you cannot take my name. We come across so many such people who very cleverly confince you to go ahead . I guess they have no courage to face the results of what is done. But when they see it's all alright , they smartly join in to celebrate the success. How often do you come across such situations in life? When was the last time someone did this to you? Who do you think you can trust to be by your side? What do you think should be done to avoid being with such people? Why do you think you get into this situations often? Questions I put to you but these questions are for you to answer and think about. These questions need you to find and answer. You need to learn to be wise because it is alright to trust but if it happens to you all the time you need to turn around and confront. Be for yourself and take a stand. | | | |  | You can also reply to this email to leave a comment. | | | | |
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