Tomorrow in the US we celebrate Memorial Day. It's one of a few days each year that we specifically take time to focus on the men and women who have sacrificed so much for our nation both in fighting for our country and those who have lost years (or lifetimes) with family members who have fought for our country. I always say that even if you don't agree with the war you can still support our troops.
One reason Memorial Day exists is because we don't always remember that there are men and women and families making this big sacrifice. But the importance of remembering each other isn't exclusive to the military community and their families, it's something we all crave. Being remembered is right up there with wanting to make a difference in the world. Whether we're remembered throughout all of history or just by a few is just as important to most of us as it is to know that the work we've done in the world makes a contribution and that contribution is recognized or appreciated by others.
How do I know we generally do a bad job of recognizing each other and the contributions we make in the world, or even just the person we are? Because studies over the years and recent studies show too many people feel lonely and unheard even in this planet of 8 billion and many social networks. You may never go out to fight in a war or pray daily for a family member who is out there fighting, but that doesn't mean that you can't take inspiration from their courage and willingness to make a difference and be more considerate and conscious of others and your impact on their life by the choices you make, as well as more frequently and consistently complimenting others and recognizing the work they do.
And when you have the opportunity to gather with family and friends, take time to remember and reminisce about the people who have been part of your lives and share stories to keep people who have passed on alive and remembered because they touched your life and you cared about them and you want others to "know" them too. What do you remember most about people when you meet them and what do you want people to remember about you long after you've gone?
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