RELATIONSHIP OBSERVER
YOU NEED TO HAVE STANDARDS!
How do you love without respect?
How do you love without trust?
How do you love without effective communication?
How do you love without understanding?
How do you love without Companionship?
How do you love without funds?
How do you love when you are physically and verbally abused?
I can go on and on with the list.
What are your values? What's your deal breaker? Your boundaries…
If you can't love with all these, why would you ignore red flags that are so glaring while dating and say "we are in love and that's all that matters?" Seriously???
When you are newly in love, everything seems perfect. That's the stage when they say "love is blind."
When you begin to transit from Emotional love to intentional love, if you are not ready, you'll call it off if things are not going well as expected.
Sweet emotions are juicy. However, they are so fragile.
People who are divorced today were once in love. If love was all that matters, they would not be divorced.
Without some form of knowledge and skills, navigating through stormy waters becomes an Herculean task.
You need to do some learning about love and Relationship. Learn about the love languages, how to resolve conflict, financial management, how to manage in-laws and extended family members, how to communicate assertively, etc.
Where you invest is where you'll harvest.
Invest in your relationship.
Live right, date right, marry right.
#McNanaSpeaks
#RelationshipObserver
Extract From My Book: MARRIAGE AND RELATIONSHIP DAIRY
Author: McNana-Osei Kofi Mfum Jacob
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