Preserving Professional Relationships: The Power of Not Burning Bridges
Burning Bridges: Lessons Learned the Hard Way
As someone who's learned a considerable number of career lessons the hard way, I've gathered my fair share of stories and insights. One topic that stands out amidst the sea of experiences is the importance of not burning bridges.
There's a phrase we throw around: "It's not business, it's personal."
But let's be real, when you spend the majority of your waking hours at work, business gets personal real quick. And with the advent of social media, it's easier than ever to let off steam in a moment of frustration, only to realize later the damage it can cause.
I'll admit, in my younger, more impulsive days, I've burned a bridge or two. There was this one time when I left a very toxic workplace, feeling justified in airing my grievances to the higher-ups as I walked out the door. It felt cathartic at the time, but the aftermath was far from pleasant.
I had lined up two potential opportunities, one with a major player in the industry and the other with a different organization. In my eagerness to voice my frustrations, I let loose on my soon-to-be former employers without considering the consequences. Fast forward a few months, and both opportunities fell through, leaving me high and dry without a paycheck.
Swallowing my pride, I had to go back to the very people I had criticized and ask for my job back. Needless to say, they weren't too keen on rehiring me. It was a humbling experience, one that taught me a valuable lesson about the repercussions of burning bridges.
But amidst the wreckage of burnt bridges, there was a glimmer of hope. A former rival, someone I had clashed with in the past, reached out and offered me a lifeline. Despite our competitive history, he saw potential in me and recruited me for my next role. I'm grateful that despite the intense rivalry, I never burned that bridge.
Reflecting on these experiences, I've come to realize that burning bridges is never worth it. No matter how justified it may feel in the moment, the long-term consequences far outweigh any temporary satisfaction. There's a line from an article I read recently that really stuck with me: "The benefits of preserving professional relationships far outweigh any temporary satisfaction gained from severing ties."
The next time you're tempted to burn a bridge, take a step back, count to ten, and consider the bigger picture. Your future self will thank you for it.
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