What do you think it means for someone to care about another person truly and completely? Do you think someone who was rarely around and seldom shows interest in how another person feels or what they may be going through indicates they care? How do you communicate with someone when you constantly have walls built higher than the tallest building in the world to shield and protect your heart from being hurt again? Would anyone who cares miss the major milestones in life? How do you move past and let go of the pain and disappointments from a broken when you have lost count of how many times it has happened? Why should you try again when you know the results do not change? These are the questions that race through my mind because I do not want to hold onto anger and resentment, but I do not want to set myself up for further hurt and painful disappointments. Who is at fault when the circumstances are always the same and become expected?
Even though I do not believe in setting New Year's resolutions, it does not mean I will not make achievable changes in life. Those who do not add positivity to our lives and only add sadness, stress, and negativity do not need to follow us into 2024. People who disappoint and cause us distress can be eliminated so we can experience a better year and life in general. Do we not deserve happiness and a good life? If we can remove the toxic and negative people from our lives moving forward, will they be missed? Would anyone miss the tears or stress they cause? I highly doubt it because no one needs any additional negativity in their lives, as we already see enough of that on the news. It cannot hurt anything to try to implement positive changes in our lives! Life is way too short to settle for anything that does not bring us joy.
Change is not easy and will not happen overnight, but with enough determination and effort, we can make the change we need. Of course, change can be scary, but without necessary positive changes, what is the point of this life? I understand removing people who bring us down can be difficult, but in the end, it can be well worth it because we might be much happier without those who are toxic. Many things are uncontrollable in our lives, but changes for the better are something that we have the power to control. Is there anyone in your life currently who constantly disappoints and breaks your heart? I sincerely hope this is not something you have been exposed to because it is something I would not wish on my worst enemy.
Thank you for stopping by my site today. This is my first post of 2024, and I hope to do many more interesting posts for all of you. As always, I look forward to reading your comments and will respond as quickly as I can. If you have any suggestions for posts you would like to read, please let me know and I will do my best to get them done. Please never forget I am always sending y'all LOTS of love♥, comfort, support, and MANY positive vibes!
Always, Alyssa
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