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My Father Deserves Disgrace

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My Father Deserves Disgrace

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Jan 24

A distraught daughter has declared that her father deserves the disgrace he is getting for engaging in sex--l acts with his diaspora son's wife. The father-in-law was trapped by a juju that detects immorality amongst married people which was introduced into the body of the son's wife by her brother's sister who did that because she wanted to catch the wife in the act. She thought she was only disgracing her sister-in-law until she discovered that the man atop her sister-in-law in a hotel was her own biological father. "My father deserves disgrace, shameless father", she screamed.

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Suspicious Sister-Inlaw

Esther explaining the situation to SoniaOfficial

Speaking to SoniaOfficial, the online video crew, Esther revealed that she had suspected her sister-in-law of being unfaithful. She said she had reported to her brother severally about the suspected unfaithfulness of his wife but that he would not believe her. She then approached a juju man to prepare a trap for her to use as evidence that his brother's wife was unfaithful. She claimed that in her tradition when a woman is unfaithful, her husband will become poor or may die. Being the breadwinner of her family, "I don't want my brother to die".

Something Greater Than The Cricket Got Trapped

While initially gloating that she had finally caught the immoral wife in the act, she did not know that it was her father, the father of Precious' husband who was the big game in the trap. While parading the video crew of SoniaOfficial, she asked them to video her face. "Video her very well", she intoned proclaiming, "I told you that I will catch you". Then, curiously, she sought to know why the man on top was not showing his face. On discovering that it was her father, she let out a screeching scream.

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"My Father deserves this disgrace"

SoniaOfficial and Esther confirming the identity of Precious

Coincidentally, she had an option of choosing whether to have the sister-in-law dead or left to live through the shame and she chose the latter. That choice may have also saved the life of her father. When Esther set out to procure the juju, she said: "I don't want her to die, but let her just be disgraced". Now the disgrace has spread out all over her family.

Relationship Lessons.

Communication is Key:
The sister-in-law, Esther, suspected her sister-in-law of infidelity but whether she had effectively communicated her concerns to her brother and to his wife is open to debate. Open and honest communication is crucial in any relationship, especially in a family setting. It helps build trust and understanding.

Trust but Verify:
Esther's brother did not believe her suspicions about his wife's unfaithfulness. While trust is essential in a relationship, verifying concerns and addressing them constructively is important. Ignoring suspicions without investigation can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. Pranking services are now in surplus supply in Nigeria. A simple prank plan could have unearthed the same thing that the juju was applied for. Professional marriage verification services are also available for discrete investigation. (We offer such services that get to the root of the family to help you prevent ancestral issues and age-long problems).

Resorting to Juju or Manipulation is Destructive:
Should Esther have resorted to spiritual manipulation? Esther resorted to using a juju (traditional magic) trap to catch her sister-in-law. Could more healthy communication and trust-building have been applied? The choice she made can be considered manipulative. Using deceit and magical means to solve relationship issues may lead to immediate results but may have long-term unintended consequences and damage family bonds. She may then have opened the door of suspicion that she is using witchcraft to control her family.

Unintended Consequences of Actions:
Esther's actions had unintended and severe consequences. What she thought would disgrace her sister-in-law turned out to involve her own father. This underscores the importance of carefully considering the potential outcomes of one's actions, especially when attempting to resolve personal issues. Although it is not clear if Precious has a child for her husband it would be devastating on the mental health of the children to see a video of their mother and grandfather online in the public space.

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Family Loyalty and Forgiveness:
Despite the shock and disgrace, Esther chose not to harm her sister-in-law and decided to let her live through the shame of her disloyalty. This decision may have saved the life of her father too. It highlights the importance of family loyalty, forgiveness, and making choices that prioritize the well-being of family members, even in difficult situations.

Re-evaluating Cultural Beliefs:
This story highlights a traditional belief that a woman's infidelity can bring misfortune to her husband. How and where did this emanate from? Why is it not the disloyal person that is afflicted? Such cultural beliefs can influence people's actions and decisions. I don't know the origin of this social construct but I believe that every man is liable for the decisions they take.

Empathy and Understanding:
Discovering the truth about her father's involvement could have prompted Esther to reevaluate her judgments and approach the situation with empathy. Understanding the complexities of human relationships and being open to different perspectives can prevent unnecessary conflicts. No matter how hurt we may be, we should always be open to the possibility that we would need each other.

Conclusion

This story brings many things to the fore. There is a need to examine long-distance relationships (LDR) and to determine whether one is cut out for it. If you can not wait for your partner faithfully, then don't get involved. Families should also approach issues with understanding and with more Christ-like attitudes. The absence of Christian virtues may partly account for these kinds of situations.

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