As there are a thousand and one ways to solve a mathematical problem so is there a thousand and one ways to happy family and marriage.
My template for a happy home may not work for you. That's why, I am always wary of relationship/marriage counselors who always say, 'In my home, we do this, we do that.' or 'My husband is this, my wife is that.'
For example, most will say, do panranran (saxophone) for your spouse as a surprise on their birthday but if mine want to see my red eyes, is she attempting that.
You won surprise me, you go bring noise. I cherish quietness like anything else. Secondly, I abhor surprises.
Or I say I will take over in kitchen affairs, I am just looking for an unhappy partner. Why? Cooking energized my wife and she loves doing it.
Trust me, my wife can cook very delicious and healthy varieties of meals - both local, national, and intercontinental meals, that you will make you beg for more. Try us at via DM.
Her signature food is jollof rice.
Back to the post, as I will always say, as long as the abuse is not there, couples should be encouraged to find and pursue any template that brings happiness to them.
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