Hiroko Maki, Parenting navigator
What is self-sacrifice?
It is to devote one's time, effort, body, and life to a certain purpose.
As a result, this thought comes to one's mind: "Why am I the only one who loses?"
At my seminar I talked about the reason why you keep repeating the same thing over and over again even though you know you are living an unrewarding life.
Thank you to those who participated.
Here is feedback from one of the participants.
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When I look back on my own history, I can feel that self-sacrifice is deeply and profoundly engraved in my DNA.
Self-sacrificing habit is taught in the humility of the Japanese people and they hide their own happiness and desires behind virtue, believing that they should not be pursued.
But what shocked me at the seminar was that we cannot live without self-sacrifice. How numbed we are!
But such mindset overlapped with mine:
"I shouldn't be happy, it's a sin!" (Excerpt)
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As this feedback indicates, you don't understand what you are imposing on yourself because you're too paralyzed even about yourself. Thus, you end up repeating the same thing over and over again.
Wake up from this paralysis and find a way of life that does not draw you into the world of self-sacrifice!
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