Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak

south ridge church

Nov 2

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James 1:19b You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.

After spending some time this week in Daniel 9, let's now turn our attention to a passage which was written with more practical implications. We finished out last week's readings with James 1:2-18, so this week let's move forward to James 1:19-27.

James 1:19 is a frequently taught passage within western Christianity today, yet it remains one of the most difficult passages to apply.

As you go about your day today, pay very close attention to how frequently you talk and how well you listen. When listening, are you really listening to what the other person is saying, or are you spending more time thinking about how you're going to respond when they're done? Are you listening to understand the other person's perspective, or are you waiting to tell them why their perspective is wrong? Are you allowing yourself to feel the deep emotions they're feeling, or are you judging them for feeling that way? Real listening takes great patience and humility.

READING & PRAYERS:

JAMES 1:19-27 (also read the commentary notes in your Study Bible of choice.)

QUESTION: When is a time you really felt like somebody fully listened to you without judging or telling you why you're wrong? What was that experience like?

REAL LIFE PRACTICE: As you pray today, spend an equal amount of time listening to God as you spend talking to God. Perhaps listen even longer. Consider making this a part of your daily practices so you can discern God's voice more clearly.

Take a Step: Remember to continue utilizing the One Minute Pause app throughout the week. If possible, begin to explore and practice the 3, 5 or 10 minute pause to more deeply root yourself in Christ.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father, I know that far too often I'm more likely to judge others, or finish their sentences, or think about how I want to respond than I am to provide them space to freely talk. Help me to set aside my self-centeredness and simply be one who really listens to those I interact with today - and everyday. In Jesus' name. Amen.

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