| ansharihbasri Oct 29 | - think how i want to do this (e.g. say something) in the long term or if this was an ideal relationship,
- do just that,
- build healthier associations with whatever the consequences that would come out (like "ok, this is normal."), while consciously avoiding feeding unhealthy (especially default, "outdated"-ly unhealthy) associations (like "oh, this is so awkward.")
- repeat
i.e. fake it till i make it even if i don't know when i'll make it | | | | You can also reply to this email to leave a comment. | | | | |
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