You have to be aware,
To change the pattern.
Connection is something to offer
In a loving way and with respect.
You and I are not that different
As you sometimes seem to believe.
When fear is part of the situation
Or uncertainty arises.
That's where the process begins
Of assumption and projection
From the way you perceive yourself.
Lack of self-esteem and misunderstanding
And therefore wrong interpretation,
Causes internal friction.
Even with love in the equation,
The thoughts can run in opposite directions
towards away from the loving relationship.
Awareness is your tool for change.
To create a new perspective
And understanding each other,
Less room for assumptions to rise.
It all starts from within how you want
Observe each situation or experience.
Confident and filled with self-love
There is an area, where you can check and ask.
Without the dualistic way of competing,
there will be a harmonious way of it
receiving and interpreting the messages.
Communication becomes transparent again.
How you want to be treated
So you have to treat the other person too.
In defense caused by friction,
You won't find transparency or a loving exchange.
Become aware of your inner insecurities
And the causes underlying it.
Because they are the internal triggers
That will create the assumption and belief
The way you are seen.
In a loving connection, they must be different
Aware of your inner actions
Will create the greatest opportunity.
It opens the dialogue with your inner self
Counterpart that you think you see in the response
On the other, it feeds the insecurity within.
Misunderstandings can be prevented again,
Where perceptions unfold.
To have a relationship with yourself,
In a loving, unconditional way,
You address the aspects that are in need
of understanding with compassion and love.
Healing starts with internal communication
Through consciousness and awareness.
Then it's easy to ask
Being really interested in a loving way.
With an open heart and ear,
Listen without judgmental thoughts
Or fears that cause emotions to explode.
This gives space to communicate
And exchange views.
Love will be the key to this process
To get rid of the emotional turmoil.
It will bring clarity and peace of mind,
As well as an open and caring attitude.
As it is within, so shall it come forth.
And so it will happen.
High Self Rhea Dopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Messages
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