Your state of mind totally affects how you begin and end each day. I know that unexpected things can be thrown at us (how it affects you depends on your mindset). I know that other people can cause chaos in our lives (how it affects you depends on your mindset). I know that people who haven't healed from their past pains go day to day carrying things from their pasts. I can list an endless amount of things, but the bottom line is how we choose to go through our lives, depends on each of us, (individually)! People can make every excuse there is and blame others or things; reality is, it falls on us, (individually).
I believe with every fiber in my body that our mindsets determines how we think, act, and feel (real or fake). If we are negative, it will often affect the way we think upon rising every morning. If we want a good day, it is how we must think about it as we begin the day (every day)! Be grateful for what you have and stop allowing what you don't have to depress you or make you feel bad. One fact I've learnt is that most people willfully choose to remain the same. They go through life with issues they're holding inside, and allowing to affect many facets of their lives. Yet, they do nothing to change. Instead, they go through life the very same way. Some people literally have to drag themselves out of their beds to work, school, or wherever they have to go. What's even sadder is they form a habitual lifestyle of doing it. They are accustomed to waking up with the "woe it's me syndrome." Changing is always an option!
Most people live life on auto-pilot, they are simply going through the motion. They've settled with how they are, even though they're miserable. Yet, they never choose to deal with why they are the way they have chosen to become. Basically, I've written all of that to write this; if we don't choose to heal from our internal pain or unresolved issues, those things will affect our lives. What's in us has been caused by our past experiences (trauma, good experiences, or other bad experiences), which is how our mindsets are formed. We are who we are, based on those experiences, learnt behaviors, and conditioning of our minds. We can choose change by becoming better or we can hold on to the negativity allowing it to inhibit our growth and maturity. Most people have succumbed to it for a life time of self-inflicted pain (problems, chaos, drama, etc.). Unfortunately, most people choose the latter. They remain the same!
Most people have learned to struggle through life, and although a struggle, they still manage to get through things. People who are this way don't realize their strength. All they can see and feel is the struggle, which is what they react to. Then there are those who barely can function day to day. Despite which state of mind, people choose to be who they are. People can fake their way through, but it doesn't benefit them. It keeps them in the mindset of faking, instead of becoming better. Those who choose to become better are those who have decided to deal with their inner issues so that they can heal from them. They also learn to love self! They learn that how they think and feel about self is far more important than what others, think and feel about them. This is what it takes to become the best version of ourselves!!!
You can't blame anyone or anything for how you as an adult have willfully chosen to become. Blaming, faking, and pretending only keeps people doing more of the same! The option to change is always an option and a better one I might add. If you want better in your life, you must do something different! Only you can change who you are. You have to want it and then do it! All of the choices and decisions we make, what we allow and accept in our lives, etc., etc., depends on our mindsets. How we love or don't love (self and others), what we choose to allow in our lives, how we trust (too much or the lack their of), the insecurities, fears, phobias, etc., etc., all depends on our mindsets. What's your true state of mind? No matter how much a person fake and pretend, if it isn't positive, the truth will show! Choosing to be a prison to your own mindset is a choice, but one; that no one should choose! People remain the same, because it's familiar and comfortable. That alone is a major problem that most people have adopted, and adapted to in their lives. Again, what is your state of mind!
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