What is it about letting go - or let it go?
Letting go is about surrender and allowing things to be as they are.
It has to do with changes we go through, and sometimes it's about fear or fearful stuff and experiences. Other times it's about letting go of what is close to your heart, someone who is very dear and the comfortable position you are in that can change in a heartbeat.
Let it go also has to do with accepting what is real at the moment. Whether it is loss of health and ability, or the dis-ease someone you love is going through. When you stop fighting against something you cannot change at that moment of Now, you are more able to let go. At the same time, you have a choice.
Surrendering is a difficult process for most people because they associate it with weakness and vulnerability. So, this might trigger the fight mode even more. Once you have experienced the result when you chose to let go, it will confirm you in the choice making as being the right decision you can make.
The moment you decide to take a look at any situation as a learning experience in how to let go, love steps in. Immediately. For what we tend to hold on to is based on fear, insecurity, and loss – all opposite of Love.
We fear what might happen if we lose control over our life, our health, our job, our family, our country, you name it.
This is all micro-macro cosmos universally through every situation and encounter. Yet, fearing something is creating this dualistic existence on planet Earth with diversity and division. It is a norm almost to think in either-or, fight or flight, surrender vs power, all sides of the same coin. For we learn through our experiences together. So, there is love, and the counterpart is fear.
What is being asked of us by letting go – or let it go? It requires trust and faith, that's for sure. And you might wonder – in whom, or what, should we trust or have faith?
As history already showed us over centuries, trust is something that has to be earned and not because of rank or position in society. Yet, letting go comes from deep within, not because you think you gain something with it. On the contrary, you have no clue what outcome it will present, only you let go of the outcome and detach yourself. Not mine, but your will shall be done.
So, we are still talking about letting go. Most, and for most, letting go of fear colors the outcome negatively. When releasing in love, we create a positive void so to speak, and as metaphysics has shown, it's all energy, about electrons, neutrons, protons, positive and negative, the law of matter, for all who have any knowledge like Einstein and Tesla for instance did.
I won't pretend to know anything about it, just that we have to do with the same mechanism emotionally and psychologically. Positive and negative energy. It also has been written and described in many various ways.
Many experts like Rogers, Freud, and his 'opponent' Jung, or the Eastern writers and philosophers like Rumi or Plato in the early beginning of our society. They all have described in their own terms, language, ideas, and experiences about Love, duality – learning skills, and the wonder of Human Nature.
The only thing I can bring in is my own experiences, what it means to me, and how much I gained in letting go.
And so, it is.
High Self @RheaDopmeijer (c)
Heartfelt Messages 20-7-2015
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