I had to learn how to do this to get by in life. I never liked it.
I listen to girls of all ages talk about food, shopping, clothes and just about anything and anybody. I have watched my wife's relatives in Denmark deal in Janteloven. It's where they talk about anything to not go below the surface which might "upset someone's feelings" for being different. It is tedious. The lack of depth is a waste of time for me.
I ran out of gas to up up with in life, that or patience. Jenn is right. I don't have the energy for it anymore.
The other side is also right though. If it is deep conversation about an actual topic with depth and I can talk for a long time. The problem usually is finding someone with my interests or interest level. Even then, I run out of gas a lot sooner than an extrovert.
I tried to keep up with extroverts when I had to get by in life. Now that I'm retired and don't have to work, find a wife or any of the young person problems, I bail on these conversations. I'll listen, shake my head and say yes, no, great, sure or other comments, but mostly I just want it to stop. I don't want to open the door to it going on any longer than it has to.
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