Attraction; Myths And Truths From Solomon's Eyes

Emmanuel Nyabam

Jul 29

I am the rose of Sharon, And the lily of the valleys. As the lily among thorns, So is my love among the daughters. As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, So is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, And his fruit was sweet to my taste. He brought me to the banqueting house, And his banner over me was love. Stay me with flagons, Comfort me with apples: For I am sick of love. His left hand is under my head, And his right hand doth embrace me.
Song of Solomon 2:1‭-‬6 KJV

This morning I want to begin a journey into the realm of our sexuality with regards to the research I have been on for some time now. The question is what turns you on sexually? As simple as the matter seems the answers are diverse and one now had to disipate the myths and realities about attraction. William Atkinson wrote a book on the laws of attraction and even thay does not capture the essence of emotions fully yet we must take this journey. I have asked folk how they have kept their homes and in the end they have helped dispel some of the myths and untruths about turn on which ultmately is attraction. So we begin with natural laws.

THE Universe is governed by Law - one great Law. Its manifestations are multiform, but viewed from the Ultimate there is but one Law. We are familiar with some of its manifestations, but are almost totally ignorant of certain others. Still we are learning a little more every day - the veil is being gradually lifted. We speak learnedly of the Law of Gravitation, but ignore that equally wonderful manifestation, THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IN THE THOUGHT WORLD. We are familiar with that wonderful manifestation of Law which draws and holds together the atoms of which matter is composed - we recognize the power of the law that attracts bodies to the earth, that holds the circling worlds in their places, but we close our eyes to the mighty law that draws to us the things we desire or fear, that makes or mars our lives. When we come to see that Thought is a force - a manifestation of energy - having a magnet-like power of attraction, we will begin to understand the why and wherefore of many things that have heretofore seemed dark to us. There is no study that will so well repay the student for his time and trouble as the study of the workings of this mighty law of the world of Thought - the Law of Attraction.

So Sexual arousal is a natural and essential aspect of human intimacy. What turns us on sexually can be deeply personal and varies from individual to individual. Understanding the concept of sexual turn-ons, debunking myths, and recognizing potential concerns is crucial for cultivating healthy relationships and fostering open communication with partners. To this end we will explore the essence of sound sexual turn-ons, the myths and truths surrounding them, and what to look out for in the pursuit of a fulfilling and consensual sexual experience.

Sexual turn-ons refer to the stimuli or factors that elicit sexual desire and arousal in a person. These stimuli can be diverse and may encompass physical, emotional, psychological, and even contextual elements. While some turn-ons might be common, others are deeply subjective and specific to an individual's experiences, preferences, and desires. It's essential to remember that sexual turn-ons should be consensual and respectful of each partner's boundaries. We will ponder further tomorrow but let me end by stating the mind is key on our quest. The education of the mind is also key to the understanding of sexual arousal and turn ons. The passage today captures the key essence of the mind we shall explore further our thoughts know that attraction had to do with the mind and environment is key. Have a blessed weekend. Shalom

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