"Even beautiful things have endings, but it doesn't mean they have to be forgotten. Moments are memories, no matter how broken, complicated, or messy those moments have been. This chapter is ending, and healing will be hard … but it doesn't mean that beautiful beginnings are not coming." TIFFANYMOULE.COM
1. It's normal and OK to feel you must move on – from people, situations and relationships. And it's Ok for others to outgrow you, too.
2. Allow yourself to feel, and to grieve for the loss. It meant it was important, or they mattered to you.
3. Ask yourself the question: Am I struggling to let go because that other person is holding on to me? Also, what will it take for you to instigate real change? Perhaps what feels familiar still feels comfortable and safe.
4. If you're choosing to move on from a close relationship where things fell apart, or went badly wrong, forgive yourself for things you said, or did, or now regret. It's part of being human. So let those go as well.
5. We don't always get closure. It's not only down to us. Sometime we just accept that the past cannot be changed.
6. Letting go means letting in … Letting in something that's new, or someone we've not met yet … and that's a scary thought. But this could be the change that will transform everything!
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