The internet is full of resources a student of Druidry can use, to broaden their knowledge of Druidry both historical and contemporary. There are courses you can pay for and teachers who will guide you and when you're starting out, that can be hard to make sense of. Not all Druidry is the same - there are many different styles and flavours out there. Not all of those are going to suit you and you may not be lucky enough to land exactly where you need to be at the start - not least because at the outset you likely don't know what your kind of Druidry is.
Give yourself permission to make mistakes. This is a key thing for all kinds of learning. You don't have to utterly invest in the first things you encounter - and if you do, it's also fine to change your mind about that and move on. If you try things and they don't work out for you, that's not a failure on your part. It also doesn't mean that Druidry itself is not for you, you're just in the wrong bit of the woods at this point.
Give yourself permission to change your mind. Be open to being excited about things but don't feel like you have to take up residence there forever. What works for you right now might not work at all in a year or two, and that's not a problem. We change, we grow, our needs shift and so what we do has to adapt to that.
No doubt the most difficult thing you might face around this is the possibility of having been wrong about something. The first things you encounter are likely to shape your ideas of what Druidry is, and not all Druid content is created equal. If you have run into fantasy takes on the Celts, or something laced with bigotry, or appropriation from other cultures, you might be in the uncomfortable position of having to admit that you've been doing it wrong. Druidry is generally non-dogmatic and inclusive of many approaches, but we're not free from issues and it is so easy, in all innocence, to pick up some of that.
Getting caught up in something dodgy is not a measure of you. The key thing is what you decide to do if it is suggested to you that you're engaged with something problematic. The right answer here is to listen, read, learn - be open to what you're hearing about the problems and scrutinise them. Listen to the people who are affected by things you didn't realise were a problem. Be willing to change.
If what you are doing harms no one, then it's your business, or it is between you and your Gods. If you've unwittingly entered into something harmful, that's always going to be uncomfortable. We all make mistakes, especially when we're young in our craft. Like a lot of people, I've got crystals of unknown provenance I bought when I didn't know any better, and as a teenager I had one of those cheap, rip-off dream catchers. The key to proceeding with honour is to be able to own that kind of thing and act accordingly. Alongside this it is important to educate each other without shaming anyone for not having known, and to give each other opportunities to do better rather than knocking each other down.
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