These is a concept known as "Opposites attract". People who are opposite to us come in our life to challenge us and help us become a whole person, a balanced person.
So if we are selfless , we will attract many selfish people in our life. We are supposed to learn self care. Give from the place of fulfillment rather than from the place of self-immolation.
If we are ill confident , we will attract a criticizer who will keep criticizing us a lot. We are supposed to look at our good things and become a confident person.
If we are too logical, we will attract over emotional people in our life and we are supposed to learn handling our emotions.
If we are too emotional, we will attract over logical person and we are supposed to learn being more logical in our approach.
When we feel that life is giving us people who are difficult for us then we need to look at something inside us that is opposite to them.
We are supposed to become a balanced person. For example - A person who is logical as well as emotional ( not meant a perfection in this) but more balanced in this area may attract equally balanced person because there is not much opposite to a balanced person.
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