Lil mean sis rant

Larney

Jul 13

Untitled and I went to a spa on Saturday, full day of massages and we slept over there... It was lovely. I saw the spa special and booked it without hesitation. He's always paying for our hotel rendezvous and I wanted to treat him.

Que in mean sis.

When I got back, mean sis was like: "how was the place?" It was nice. "Did he pay?" - Is this an appropriate question to ask someone? I didn't answer that, actually I did and said no, he paid! "He's lucky he changed his car, imagine going around in his old car.." But that sounds it would be his problem because he was the one driving it....?!? In the middle of our treatments, mean sis texted me "You make time for everyone else but me" Excuse me? I literally live with her and y'all KNOOOOOOOOOOW the jabs she throws everyday. Literally my mission is to be out the house as often as possible. She literally had gone to do her nails and when she was about to pay, the nail tech was like 'nah, someone blessed you, they already paid'.... that person was me. She called and asked if I won the lotto, said I must pay for her hair too then eventually said 'thank you' after I said 'just say thank you and leave it at that'.

She needs to remember we are not friends or lovers, I do not owe her my time. Sigh!

What actually prompted this post was what she said this morning. I was telling her that I hardly slept last night and she said 'it's like me when you aren't home, I can't sleep' Are you mad???? You think my life plan is to live with you the rest of my life? You are 40 and can't sleep when your 34 year old sister isn't home? That's not care, that's some sick dependency, that's toxic manipulation to made me feel bad and ALWAYS BE HOME. You need a life. Well prepare for plenty sleepless nights because I'm planning to move in with my boyfriend when he gets a place, which might be soon because he got a promotion