Empathy as healing asset
Being empathetic is not always an easy trade. Being able to sense the emotions of my environment, as well as how people feel, holds a big responsibility. I am not always tuned into the outside of my inside world. I have learned over the years with a lot of practice to hold the line and know which is mine.
It demands a kind of detachment to be able to go through my day-to-day life. When it comes to those who I love and am in a relationship with, that is a different story. Having such a deep connection with them is enabling me to sense and even feel the emotions that are being stored. As well as the situations or challenges they relate to.
Sometimes the knowing is difficult for others to accept, or even to understand for that matter. Yet when it comes to assisting in healing or releasing stuck energy from within, I knew that this is part of me that can step up. It is like fine-tuning a radio station, if you will.
When it is required to be able to read the emotions and the challenge that comes with it, that is when I go within. It was necessary for me to learn to be more detached because at the beginning of my lifetime it was all entwined. My inner world and the outer world were one so to speak as a child.
Sensing and feeling the emotions of my family around me was not always easy. Even as a child I was asked what is wrong when I sensed the emotions of sorrow or pain to check when it was not mine. The denial in the answers made it a challenge, to learn, which is mine and which is not part of my emotional world.
In later years it got a name, being highly sensitive is one of them. Different wired as a lot of other people and different biologic set up. That is the hard part because every type of energy that could not be determined as my own experience left a print in my physical system. Even sensing the emotional effect on the health of someone else was hard at times.
It worked if the other one was open to accepting what I could tell what the root of the problem was. That is the case if people came to me for answers and allowed me to step into their mental, physical, and emotional system so to speak, my fine-tuning. So, during therapy, it is a major asset this ability to tune in.
It requires a different approach, where the guard of detachment could be let down for the time being. With my beloved, it was not a manner of detaching because our inner connection was an open and loving one. It was a challenge at times because we not always are working through our emotional experiences the same way.
We also had our own path to walk, working through our own issues to be healed and released. There were times this was even hard to do, yet love is a great teacher as well, the key to being able to get detached when it was required. We chose each other for various reasons. That we are different and sometimes coming from the opposite direction taught us to find the inner balance over the years.
Growing and learning, experiencing how deep the Love and connection was and still is. Even after crossing the line of this earthly lifetime. I understood that my ability to sense and feel the emotions as well pain physically was being stored within myself as well. Being confronted with a physical challenge that requires me to surrender to being dependent, I was pulled back in time, so to speak.
The way we are in the hands of others to assist in a very intimate way by taking care of our physical well-being is a huge challenge. We must go past shame; we must allow the touch and difference between the caretakers as well as how they are doing their work. It brought back the memories of how the last months have been for my love and the way he was able to handle this.
It was more than just bringing back the memories. Furthermore, it also raised up from within my body, heart, and mind as well the energetic imprint it had left within me. The sorrow, the pain that had been lying dormant within me, was being triggered due to my own process in this present moment. There was a moment of huge purging that came with it, which was felt through my entire body energetically as well.
As well, this was a part of my own, I immediately knew this was a release and healing for my love as well by going through this massive and painful block of stuck energy. It works both ways for him as well for me. I know that release of stuck energy I might hold which is not my first needs to be recognized.
There is always some kind of trigger in the challenges I am facing, that opens the stuck energy that lies deep within. We are still connected through our Hearts and Love connection over the borders of this material world.
I know for sure, that my release and letting go, as well the awareness that came with it, also benefits his well-being and his journey to the other side of the veil. That is when it dawned on me. Being empathetic and assisting a healing process is an asset, a gift, and a treasure.
Grateful as well humbled at the same time to experience the depth of this internal experience I had. So many people are going through this process of dependency, being physically disabled. The way you are being treated makes a world of difference if it will be a loving and healing experience. It can cause even more damage when there is indifference in the hands and actions.
The way we are dealing with illness and disability is sometimes without respect or understanding. The emotions of shame or fear are adding up to the discomfort that already exists. You do not have to be an empath to understand this. Every act coming from love will enable us to go through these processes of allowing.
Just the awareness of the one who is assisting will make the difference in how this will be perceived. To me, it works like a sword, it cuts both ways. Being loving towards me is the key to the way I can exist in coexistence with my outer world.
And so, it will be done
High Self @RheaDopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Messages 18-10-2016
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