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[New post] Wave Af­ter Wave

Site logo image rheadopmeijer posted: " Wave after wave Or is it time af­ter time, wave af­ter wave. This song sprung to mind when I read the word wave. We all are wav­ing in our own ex­pe­ri­ences in our day-to-day life. It is chang­ing with every new pe­riod we are go­ing through. " What is Love?

Wave Af­ter Wave

rheadopmeijer

Jun 28

Wave after wave

Or is it time af­ter time, wave af­ter wave. This song sprung to mind when I read the word wave. We all are wav­ing in our own ex­pe­ri­ences in our day-to-day life. It is chang­ing with every new pe­riod we are go­ing through.

Our life span is a build-up from chal­lenges as well as pos­si­bil­i­ties. We grow up to be an adult, be­com­ing more and more aware of what life has to of­fer. The way it is col­ored by new peo­ple com­ing into our lives, the birth of chil­dren, find­ing a part­ner, a loved one, fam­ily re­la­tions. Some­times peo­ple dis­ap­pear from your life as well, in dif­fer­ent ways.

It has been ex­pressed in the way we are grow­ing up, how we are be­ing mir­rored by the way our par­ents raised us. How our so­cial net­work is re­flected in the way we have learned our lessons along the way. Pre­sented by the in­ter­ac­tions we have with other peo­ple, in dif­fer­ent roles and sit­u­a­tions.

Our role as a par­ent is dif­fer­ent from the role of an em­ployee, or as a lover with­out chil­dren. How we are feel­ing within the way we are evolv­ing, is also col­ored by the way we han­dle changes. The choices we make dur­ing the path we think we need to walk, or do not feel fit any longer.

Some­times things seem to re­peat it­self like there is one wave af­ter an­other that is feed­ing our sor­row or fear, our anx­i­ety, or our anger even. When it comes to re­la­tions or sit­u­a­tions that are not feel­ing safe, hav­ing a lack of con­trol. Or when we are deal­ing with fi­nan­cial is­sues, that keep on com­ing, time af­ter time.

Waves of emo­tions, roller-coaster mo­ments of ex­pe­ri­enc­ing that might give us the feel we are drift­ing. Los­ing solid ground un­der our feet, so to speak. It may be about re­peat­ing old pat­terns, cre­at­ing the same is­sues time af­ter time.

Some­times it takes us more time to un­der­stand what is hap­pen­ing. What is cre­at­ing the sense of los­ing con­trol, drown­ing in the emo­tional sea, and wave af­ter wave that keeps us re­strained? When we can see and rec­og­nize the key is­sue that is un­der­ly­ing the prob­lem or is­sue, we are able to change.

Get some grip on it, how to deal with it differently. How to stop the pat­tern that was cre­ated through ex­pe­ri­ences over the years. Time af­ter time, we are be­ing chal­lenged un­til we find the key to stop this and find new ways.

When I think of the re­al­ity of to­day, where we are all in some kind of lock­down, it may feel as if every change comes rapidly. Like wave af­ter wave of new find­ings, news all over the world, the uni­ver­sal is­sue that is at hand. Every day is col­ored through the way we are deal­ing with this chal­lenge. How we can al­low the en­ergy to be felt, to rec­og­nize what has been touched. Or still is touched be­cause this news will come in every day in new ways.

This process of learn­ing, how to deal with it on such a big scale, is ap­peal­ing to a to­tally dif­fer­ent as­pect of hu­man­ity. On a per­sonal level as well as a so­cial level. Every time we turn on the news, there is an­other wave of en­ergy that cre­ates fear for most peo­ple. All the dif­fer­ent in­sights will also cre­ate more in­se­cu­rity, which will cre­ate more trig­gers as well on per­sonal lev­els.

It is also a wave of en­ergy that is di­rectly con­nected with our health. Our health is di­rectly con­nected with our way of liv­ing. Our way of liv­ing is di­rectly con­nected with our sense of well-being.

Time af­ter time, there have been mes­sages we need to take bet­ter care of our planet, as well as the in­hab­i­tants. This event is clearly bring­ing up all the dis­crep­an­cies that are ex­ist­ing all over the earth. We must look at coun­tries where hunger is a day-to-day is­sue.

Where hy­giene is a prob­lem, where hous­ing is of­ten dan­ger­ously af­fect­ing the health as well. We all know the im­ages we see and watch on tele­vi­sion, or on our in­ter­net chan­nels. We have seen all those vul­ner­a­ble ones that are be­ing crushed in the sys­tems.

Time af­ter time, we have been chal­lenged to cre­ate more sta­ble and healthy ways for all of hu­man­ity. There have been many mes­sages about the way we can change not just our own po­si­tion, yet also for those who are seem­ingly less for­tu­nate.

Well, I do not think they are less for­tu­nate, they only are be­ing de­nied of proper care in any area of their life at the cost and ex­pense of a few. The way we are deny­ing every form of life to grow and ex­pand. Lack of em­pa­thy as well to­wards those who came be­tween the wheels of for­tune of oth­ers.

Wave af­ter wave has gone over our planet to open eyes. Our con­scious­ness in or­der to re­al­ize we are all in this to­gether. Every life is as pre­cious as any other, there is no mea­sur­ing de­vice that will de­ter­mine who should live a healthy life and who does not.

We as hu­man­ity have the de­ci­sion to make if we can cre­ate a dif­fer­ent out­come this time, af­ter all these times we have shut our eyes and ears. We can make this earth a bet­ter place for any­one liv­ing on it. Furthermore, we all can take our re­spon­si­bil­ity to own our ac­tions.

When we feel like drown­ing when wave af­ter wave of bad news is flood­ing into our liv­ing rooms, it's time for a change of per­spec­tive. It is time to change our per­cep­tions as well in the needs we have, what makes us happy. It is not the ma­te­r­ial wealth we can bring with us when we made our tran­si­tion.

Not only that, but it is about the mes­sages of love we have been shar­ing with those around us. The way we can honor and re­spect every mem­ber of our fam­ily, re­lated by blood or not. We are cre­at­ing our own re­al­ity, to­gether as one en­tity.

Time will tell, even when the waves are slow­ing down, we still need to be alerted to do the best we can do. For the high­est good of our fam­ily, for the high­est good for all. We need to ac­cept the re­al­ity that there are so many who are not been tak­ing care of in the way they de­serve. We need to ad­dress those who want to profit only from dif­fi­cult times.

Furthermore, we need to stand out maybe, to see what we can achieve, when we all do this from the heart, so we can change the heart of the mat­ter. Cre­at­ing a healthy place for every liv­ing be­ing, a sa­cred space for every­one, be­cause that is our birthright.

In lov­ing con­nec­tion with each other, we can only show our true col­ors, time af­ter time, wave af­ter wave.

So, it will be done.

High Self @RheaD­op­mei­jer ©

Heart­felt Mes­sages May 21, 2020

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