Porn is something that seems to have different meanings and different followings. There is the porn that has traditionally been a guy or guys having their way with a woman, little to no storyline, and pretty much just the guy having his way. There is the 'lighter' stuff of the sex scenes in movies and there is what is probably in the middle - 'Fifty Shades', '365', romance novels. I will not comment on child pornography other than to say it is illegal for a reason and should never occur at all!

But porn for adults, made by consenting adults, enjoyed by consenting adults, is a norm of society. There has long been a commentary that the old school male porn was not realistic, gave guys, and girls, a false sense of what sex was like or supposed to be like. So is the newer porn, sometimes called Mommy porn, like Fifty Shades and 365 something different? It certainly has a storyline, or more of one than the old porn does. But I also see something different.

I see a bit more equal power dynamic between the guy and the girl. I see the guy actually taking pleasure in the girl's pleasure - that there is more enjoyment when both get off! The guys seem to pay more attention to their partners' needs. I think this is a very important development for showing some realism in sex to viewers.

Don't get me wrong, there is still a plethora of 'fake' in the newer porn. Not everyone looks like a porn star, has sexual organs that are enormous, accommodating and can go all night, or the high end lifestyles that are often portrayed in porn. But the dynamic of having both partners pleasure be important during sex is a positive development, I think. What are your thoughts?