[New post] Worship; Drinking Water From Your Own Well 2
Emmanuel Nyabam posted: " Worship; Drinking Water From Your Own Well 2 Drink water from your own cistern, flowing water from your own well. Should your springs be scattered abroad, streams of water in the streets? Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your y"
Drink water from your own cistern, flowing water from your own well. Should your springs be scattered abroad, streams of water in the streets? Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love. Proverbs 5:15-16, 18-19 ESV
There was a time when we ate the last meal at CLAPAI ORPHANAGE HOMES and as they ate dinner we knew that even our account was in the red. We came home and basically were getting on each other's nerves but guess as we tried to watch a movie it was not working so we went into our room and as we undressed for the night I caught a glimpse of Kyenpiya's beauty and crossed over to kiss and caress her. One thing led to the other. Won't bother you with the sordid details but as we were ending I told her I found myself praying for provision and she acknowledge same. We now prayed together and left it in God's hands. As we were about to sleep my cell phone chimed and I wondered who at such an ungodly hour would call. It was my classmate. His call was to ask for our account details. A few minutes later he called again that God clearly told them to do for us. It was a million eight hundred. That was the first time the prayer of agreement on the sexual bed brought us a clear blessing. I mentioned I would tell this story yesterday. Yes sex is an act of worship and when you do it out of your home who are you worshipping? God or Satan? Today my focus is on how we approach each other to set the pace for this act of worship.
Husbands, the words you speak to your wife affect her emotionally. Wives on the other hand the words you speak provides him information. A husband is not looking for emotions. When you want to talk to him, you have to tell him what you think first, before you express your feelings Myles Munroe wrote. What your wife is thinking is often different from what she is feeling and saying. You need therefore to be patient and work through her emotions, especially when they are hurting, depressed or sad. Now a wife needs to create the environment that enables her husband to be free enough to tell her what he is feeling. If she does not create this environment she is cultivating an atmosphere where he keeps to himself and won't reveal things to her.
This is in fact a breathing ground for men to go in search of other wells out there as the needs of me are not complex. A man thinks on sex several times a day. It is why advertorial target men as the sexuality of a man is governed by his vision. A man has a vision set with regards his spouse and if he is to drink and be satisfied he needs to feel safe and welcomed as he faces numerous temptations daily as he steps out of his home. When a ma speaks to his wife he is not telling her what he is feeling, he in fact tells her what he is thinking. Now if you draw conclusions he shuts down and it creates a gap between you both.
A matured man who understands his place can take a woman stating her feelings and emotions better than she can handle his. It is simply a design making of God I dare state. Conversing attentively with your spouse actually fulfills a need within her. At the fall God stated that the desire of the woman would be fore her man and it has not changed even with the coming of Christ. Men need to understand that women mark their territory more than men do and in more subtle telepathic ways than you can imagine. Listening to her and showing interest is all she requires of you sire. This goes a long way to ensuring true worship on the bed. Also never think that by fulfilling a want you're fulfilling and satisfying a need. I learnt this the hard way. Kyenpiya is not a gift person at all.
If you want a romp in the sack men let me let you in on a secret... She needs you to talk to her and tell her she's somebody important, special and even very unique. In fact telling her she is everything you ever dreamt of and more gets you that lie the pornographic videos sell and more sire. Proverbs 5:19 tells us May you ever be captivated by her love. The ESV version captures it succinctly for me, Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love. Her love is intoxicating. I found that when I gave her my uninterrupted attention the love was something else and we were able to worship better not only in bed but as a family. In fact iron sharpens iron became the mode of operating for us. But you see being intoxicated by her love is a CHOICE and DECISION all men must make. Choose whom you will serve is my passing shot today, God or mamon! Father help men make right choices and help women state the needs, wants and emotions clearly to their men in the mighty name of Jesus. Your clarity and welcome keeps that man at home and wanting to come home regardless of the sights he sees outside. Never forget this women. Shalom
PS:This is dedicated to my time and chance, Kyenpiya Jessica Madey Mi(my own Nupe).
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