Men are humans just like women.

Men want women for various reasons, some are good and some are bad, such as:

  • A single dad looking for a mother to his kids (especially where he lost his wife to death).
  • A man of position who wants a wife by his side, such as a political elite, no matter how low the rank or a company exec.
  • Just looking for sexual fun.
  • Just looking for a friend with benefits.
  • Looking for a marriage partner.
  • Looking for a mere girlfriend to grow with slowly.

All these are reasons why men want women, especially from dating sites.

However, there are some special reasons that make men stop communicating with a crush such as:

Problems with the man

  1. He is arrogant.
  2. He is a player, has many women from the dating site.
  3. He is a narcissist.
  4. He is not sharing the same interests that the woman has such as, settling down and raising a family. May be he just wants sex.
  5. He has low self-esteem that makes him feel good to hurt the woman.
  6. Perhaps he saw someone hotter.
  7. He gets bored easily.
  8. He is not serious with the woman.
  9. He does not want to commit.
  10. He is not an objective judge of situations. For example, when a woman asks him for money just once, he already thinks she is a gold digger when she may not be.

Problems with the woman

  1. She is a snub, turning off the guy. She does not reply texts or calls.
  2. She is a player with several men and the man does not like that about her.
  3. She plays too hard to get. This also bores the man.
  4. She won't come out for a date even if she is not forced or told to go to the man's house, but is asked to meet in public like at a hotel.
  5. She is undecided. She is not sure whether she wants to date or not.
  6. She is arrogant. She thinks too highly of herself.
  7. She is too uptight. She has so many principles and rules. She takes everything too seriously and she is no longer fun. Perhaps also, she takes too long to give it up to the guy.
  8. She is too judgmental. For example, she judges the man to be poor (gold digging) or she judges the man to just want sex (ego).
  9. She has low self-esteem and has seemingly no hope in life. A guy doesn't want to carry her problems.
  10. She has emotional baggage, which means that, she is still tormented with problems from the ex relationship.

At the end of the day, if a man stops communicating, it could be a problem with the man or with the woman. So, it is up to both of you to look into yourselves and find out what is really wrong. It could be you who is being snubbish or it could be him who is being arrogant. I hope that the ten reasons above under each of the problems will help shed light.

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