I know that am living this crazy life called . . . Unconventional.

As am waking up everyday thinking about success, about women, and about 'what the fuck?' that I really wanted to be. I still find it hard to understand some (maybe most) people.

Why on earth will I care about your own happiness neglecting my own? You think I could be this very fuck-face by thinking about others? - No way. Am just here living my life.

Although am a Speaker, a Writer, and someone who really care about success for others. But don't mistake it with trying to please people. Whether your family help you or support you to become successful is none of my business, and I don't care what you think after reading this article.

But let assume ourselves to be friends, (and not your typical fucked up friends who refused to smack you in the face and tell you the truth) and am really interested in helping you.

You walk up to me one fucking night and say: "Yeah bro, my life really is a mess. There's this girl I love (very deeply), but it seem she didn't love me that much. Bro, what should I do to make her fall in love with me?"

I smile and say: "And you really love her?" And you said "Yes!" That in fact, you just can't stop thinking about her.

Okay, here is the truth:

There's nothing wrong loving a woman, in fact, it's a fucking must for you to really realize you're a man. But we're approaching it in the wrong ways. . .

"We human being doesn't really care about others feelings, except the feelings of our own."

The notion that you really love her and you're here to do anything to make her fall head-over-hill for you is enough to make you see the flaws:

Have you ever considered her own feelings? Maybe she don't really love you? That you're just trying to assume something?

What if you were the one, whom one girl really fall in love with, and here you are not giving a fuck whether she loves you or not. Not that she's ugly or something, it's just that; "you don't really have feelings for her."

What will you do?

Will you tell her the truth or you'll keep playing along that, maybe one day, you can develop some feelings for her?

Your answer here will determine the level of your life. If you chose to tell her the truth in hope that she can move on with her life, then you can also face the truth and move on with your life.

But if you chose the second options, where you want to play along, that maybe one day, you will develop feelings for her, then that is exactly what your expectations will be. For her to develop feelings for you when you're playing along? ... ... ...

Wake up man! Wake up from all the feelings and illusions. Base on my experience, you don't really want to date the same girl you're dating now in the next two years. You'll feel like, she ain't that really special unless you're not interacting with beautiful women again since the day you met her.

So saying you really love her and you can't stop thinking about her is because you haven't interact with more interesting women. Believe me, if you do, you will even find it hard to believe yourself (that only her can make you happy, for where?).

Meet more people and see if you'll be falling head-over-hill for her again. And yes, the same thing applicable for women as well. Women will ditch you once they find someone (physically, emotionally, or financially) better than you (hell, they're even excellent in doing so. Because we men sometimes have some conscience, but it seem, women lack plenty).

You like her - agreed. But what if you see someone better than her - will you still be this cheery head? Will you still be daydreaming about 'only' her?

To cut the article short (because am getting impatient nowadays). You need to analyze your feelings. What if you don't really like her just the way you think you seem so? What if you're just driven by illusions? What if "in the next five years" she can't even stand before you (of course because you're improving) will you still care about her?

If all your answers are a resounding "YES!" Then she really worth it.

But if at the end, you find yourself thinking twice before you make that decision, then it is better for you to wake up friend. Yeah, wake up!

That girl shouldn't really be yours.

Have a wonderful life.

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