If a person is secure and love herself then only she can feel satisfied. Security and inner satisfaction is necessary to give/receive love.
If a person has money insecurity, she will hold on to money and wont even share with near/dear ones during their bad times.
If a person is dependent on the approval of world, she will do everything to look good in the eyes of others. So instead of doing things which is actually good for her and her family, she will live a life which looks good outside but is unsatisfying.
If a person is scared of abandonment, she will assume the person is going to leave at the drop of hat. She will cling tightly, become possessive and insecure. She might stay in toxic relationship because she cant stay alone.
If a person is scared of criticism and does not know how to understand herself then she will do everything to fit in. She will live a dissatisfying life and stay in fear of not satisfying others. She wont accept her individuality and accept herself only when others accept,
If a person is insecure of her capability and is unable to stand on her feet then she will stay dependent on others to fulfill her dreams, She may use incorrect methods to achieve the things she desire.
Take professional help, mediate or read self help books but become secure.
A secure person stays happy when completely alone in solitude. She also know which person is right for her friendships and dont fall for toxic people. Two independent and secure people can have true friendships and love.
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