Yep! You know the truth when no one else does. Oftentimes then not, who you portray yourself to be and who you really are is very different. What I really want the reader to get from this post is the fact that you'll never be the best you possible, if you are lying, pretending, hiding, etc., the real you. I know somebody needs to read this information and get it in their soul. Only people who have dealt with their issues, love self, and have grown and matured shows their true selves. Everyone else chooses to be imposters who live a lifetime of inflicting pain upon self and others.
Most people you know or meet are imposters. True fact! Why? It's because most people are hiding that part of self they want to remain hidden. They feel things they do aren't acceptable or that they would be judged. They're right on both accounts. Many things people do in the dark is unacceptable and they will be judged, period. That judgment will be by man and God. Man's judgment hurts, but God's judgment is what matters the most. I don't want to get off track, but I did want to make sure I included that last statement. I realize many people don't believe in God or Jesus and I'm not hearing trying to impose anything on you, but I personally wanted to make the statement.
There are many people who are keeping secrets who haven't gotten caught and many who were keeping secrets who have gotten caught. The bottom line is, if you know there's something about you that's causing you dysfunction, the right thing to do is deal with it. It doesn't matter if it's something that's terrible or if it's something you've gone through and still allowing it to affect your life, the right thing to do is deal with it.
If you're a person who's living a lie (regardless of what it is), only you can change this behavior/way of living. To live a lie does absolutely nothing to get you to a better state of mind. Pretending you're okay when you're not, only keeps you were you are mentally. Hiding and pretending, only keeps you in a negative state of mind, continuing to hide and pretend. Dark secrets are really no secret at all and eventually you'll be exposed. People live secret lives, because they know what they are doing is wrong. If they didn't think it was wrong and unacceptable, they wouldn't hide what they're doing. In previous posts I wrote about how many people are embedded into professions in order to do the dirty little things they have in their hearts to do. This mindset is both crippling and damaging. No one can change if they choose to remain the same!
If you want to stop the madness you have to make an effort to stop it. You can't keep living a lie and expect your life to be any different. If you're hurt from past pains, but you're pretending to be okay; you'll never be able to let it go and move on. How can you become better by pretending you're already better? You can't! Everyone goes through something, nothing no one is or has gone through is new. Nothing! Someone, somewhere else has or is going through it. To continue inflicting pain on yourself, because you were hurt by someone else makes no sense! Yet, it's the way many people choose to live. They live with self inflicted pain day in and out, because of what they've gone through. A lot of these people can't heal from their pains, because they're too busy acting as if they're okay. They can't move forward, because they're stuck mentally.
It's the same for those doing dark things to other people. If you want to be better you have to stop doing those things. People do those things, because they too have hurts they haven't healed from. They go through life inflicting similar things they've gone through or worse things upon other people, but they do it secretly; at least until they get caught. Some people won't stop even after they're caught. They may stop for a moment, but if their hearts and minds don't change, they'll go back to the darkness.
Any person on earth who want to live a better life have to choose change. There's no way on earth, no one can become the best they can be, if they haven't dealt with their pains so they can heal and move on. To heal from it, you must first deal with it! No one is to blame for who or what you've chosen to become other than you! Change doesn't start with anyone other than you. Until mindset change, hearts never will!
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