In order to keep things equal in a relationship, you may need to sit down with your significant other and communicate about each of your needs. This will give both of you the chance to talk about the things that you expect from the relationship and the things that the other person does that makes each of you feel loved. It is important to be open and honest when talking about things like this, because you don't want yourself or the other person to feel like the only person that gives.

Also, though it is easy to get consumed with your own needs, it is pertinent to pay attention to the nonverbal behavior of the person that you are with. This will help you recognize the times when he or she is struggling with something, which will give you the opportunity to step up and help him or her. It also will assist you in noticing when your other half is emotionally sound. This type of attention can help things run more smoothly and assist you in building a closer relationship.

If your significant other is constantly giving you things and running errands for you, it might be time to take a step back and think about how you can reciprocate. Though it is nice to have someone that is willing to care for you, it is also important to give that compassion back to them. Make sure that the give and take in the relationship is equal, and if you aren't sure what your other half needs, pay attention to their nonverbal behavior and talk things out.

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