Reality is the worst nightmare. People hate to face it. And the worsiest part is to believe nothing gonna happens to you. Hell no! You've gat to experience shit. Denying it will only make it worse.

We all make stupid decisions. Decision that sometimes hit us "all" hard. Not because we're fools. But because without that, we wouldn't understand how flawless we are.

And once we make that stupid decision, instead of running away from it, a real man always man up and face the shit head on. Not because of no 'escapee,' but because he just can't see himself running from his own mistakes.

How on earth will you be running from your own mistakes in life?

How long will you run? How far can you go? How many times are you gonna lie to yourself? Face the reality man. Own your mistakes.

Instead of always finding a ways to bend the truth, why can't you just admit your own mistakes and face the judgment heads on?

It doesn't easy, I know. But facing your fears will unlock tremendous bravery that you wouldn't know existed. So instead of trying to run from your own bullshits, please, try by all means to face it. Yeah! Face your reality. Nobody gonna handle it for you. It's your life, so face it.

"Be aware of everything in your life, both your mistakes and what you did right, by these can you understand the true contentment."

Pay attention to everything. What you're doing wrong and something that you're doing right. Be vigilant at all time. Everyone make mistakes but only the coward runs from it. Only the man who doesn't believe in his values will somehow run from his mistakes. You've gat to face it heads on.

Believe me, not everything you've thought is bad is that bad, some of it isn't actually bad, hell, what if they become your stepping stones? Yeah, I mean 'blessing in disguise.'

Some of our overall fear ain't that fear at all, some of it are just what we made up in our own mind. We're just driving by the illusion and believing we're about to experience what worse. Why can't we see the worsted of it before concluding on how worst it is? Why can't we face the reality before thinking it's just too much for us? It is only when we have that capacity to face it head on do we have the most important part of our life being taking care of.

Don't be scared of any fucking judgment. People gonna hate you you know?

No matter what you do people gonna have a say. And either positive or negative shouldn't be your concern. What should be your concern is whether you're doing it right or if you're doing it wrong. And as long as you're the the right things then you've gat to forget 'who said what?' That ain't your problems.

But as long as you're doing the wrong things, and you're expecting people not to talk (I mean, the same people that gonna mock you even when you're doing it right?) Wake up man! They gonna talk. You're the one to pay attention to your own fucking life. What are you doing wrong? What you could've done better? What can you do better? And where will you be better? Let all these be your stepping stones. Be clear of your own mind. Let nothing stop you from chasing your dreams. Art of manliness.

The journey that doesn't care about who you be, what you be and all that you're becoming. The journey that only care about the process.

What can you do today to make your life better? What are the lies you've been telling yourself? It's time to shut the fuckup and face the reality as they arise.

And before we log-off, hope we all have a reality check?

To the man and the woman out there? ?? ???

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