And no, am not telling you to impress them. Am telling you to put your act together.

It dawn on me that many people have bad 'parting' communication. They lack social awareness and behavioral standardizing. They do things without paying much attention to how people reacting. They think "Am just being myself." No. You're not being yourself, you're depriving yourself some benefits.

Always leave people better than you found them and they will love you for doing so.

You need to pay attention to everything you do. How are you appearing to the world? Am not telling you how to behave or how to act around people, am telling you not to continue being naive.

You need formula!

People have a tendency of respecting someone who really understand them. They have a thing for that nigga who (even when he's not interested) pay attention to everything they say. You have your head man! Use it. Use that your fucking brain.

You wouldn't believe how many opportunities you've pass-by if I did show you the clips of your past relation to people. Some of them probably thinking you didn't understand them. And for them to have such a thought mean they're not openly trusting you, they're trying to roam around your unawareness. And believe me, they're not happy with that. They want your total concern. Yes! They want you to put yourself in their shoes.

I know, I know, I know. That's not what you want right? If they can't figure out their own lives then why should you bother? Correct! You're wrong. People want a leader. Someone who really get it. Believe me.

You need to incorporate yourself. You need to be more smarter and more reasonable. Not for the sake of others but (usefully speaking) for the sake of yourself.

People will manipulate you if you didn't know how to manipulate people. They will stab you if you didn't know how to stab people. And they will excellently lie to you if you didn't know how to lie to them. Am telling you; all these things are vice versa.

How do you expect yourself to escape trap you didn't know existed? How will you go along someone who always look for ways to exploit people? How will you deal with your brothers that only want to make good use of your habit?

The only way is to understand their motives. Once you yourself knows how to do that, then it wouldn't be a surprise when they're trying it for you because you're always ready. And "Always Ready" is all we need here.

Yes! You've gat to be ready at all times.

If you put everything together, people always respect those that seem to understand more better than them. Although they might say shit about the said person and claim he only want to have his way. But tell me, has anyone ever try to disqualified that person? Never.

They will never try to rule him out, instead, they'll put him at his place because there will always be a war without doing so (and I didn't mean violent war here, I mean opportunities war, where people didn't get what they really wanted).

And the moment you started seeing things how they really were, the moment you started doing things at your own pace. And the more you lure people in because you're the one who really understand better.

"Sometimes you do shit and sometimes you didn't do shit. And almost 'most of the times' you're planning shit and in fact, you did 'really' have shit, only that; you're just waiting for the right time to push shit. That's the way I really want you to be planning your life. Always ready at all costs."

Be ready for people's stupidity and their overwhelming behavior without it affecting you much when the times come for you to take shit. Because "not planning to wait is already planning to fail" so be careful at all cost and always pay (more) attention to your surroundings because who knows when the next opportunities arises? That's why you've gat to be leaving people always, almost better than you meet them.

So until we clash again . . .

Let us all have extra vigilant behavior. It pays (sometimes) I promised.

Do have a wonderful day.

Your guy, . . .

Lasisi.

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