[New post] What mistakes do psychologists make in their own love relationships with their spouses despite advising others?
Lavine Les Mots posted: " Psychologists are mostly very smart. They offer expert advice on how others should behave to date well and marry successfully. However, they too make mistakes in their own relationships such as: Being too smart for their spouses. They may end up be"
They offer expert advice on how others should behave to date well and marry successfully. However, they too make mistakes in their own relationships such as:
Being too smart for their spouses. They may end up belittling the efforts of the spouse.
Being mind-readers therefore assuming a lot that may not be true. In relationships, a psychologist may go overboard and assume many things because of jealousy, anger or hatred for a spouse.
Not speaking up about an issue. A psychologist may want to handle an issue themselves and in the end, this sidelines the spouse who does not feel much important in their lives.
Looking at the relationship from outside looking in. This means that always, the psychologist may find flaws in his or her own relationships. They may forget to appreciate what they have.
Trying to make a spouse fit their analysis. There is nothing worse than a psychologist analyzing evidence from the end result to the beginning. Normally, a good investigator starts from the beginning and follows the evidence to the end. You shouldn't make judgments fit your narrative as a psychologist.
Psychologists are not perfect. They too get divorced and broken up with. May be these bits of information will help them date and marry better.
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