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Yernasia Quorelios posted: " ON 'THE GRASS IS GREENER' - Diamond Hard - If We Need to Ask or Pay for Advice on Love We ARE NOT!!! Feeling The Love; if We ARE Feeling The Love We Don't NEED!!! The Advice of Others...basically We Exist, Experiment and Experience; with regard to Se" Respond to this post by replying above this line New post on Relationship Insights by Yernasia Quorelios Relationships Matter – Lusher Pastures ? by Yernasia Quorelios ON 'THE GRASS IS GREENER' - Diamond Hard - If We Need to Ask or Pay for Advice on Love We ARE NOT!!! Feeling The Love; if We ARE Feeling The Love We Don't NEED!!! The Advice of Others...basically We Exist, Experiment and Experience; with regard to Sexual/Romantic Relationships this a Complex Concotion of Energetic/Physical Attraction, Psychological Synchronicity and Sexual Chemistry...the difference betwixt Reading Alone, Taking Advice from Friends and Attending Counselling TOGETHER!!! is that a Counsellor gets to know Both of YOU!!! and Acts as a Kind, Caring, Compassionate Adjudicator, Mediator, Referee, Umpire et al...so, EveryOne; is Love Two Pairs of Comfortable Slippers or is Love Addictive, Wild, Wanton, Lustful, Lazy, Envious, Jealous in InterActions et al that ALL Inevitably Ends in Separation and Desolation in much Less Lush, Green, Grassy Plains that turn out to be nothing more than Hardy Brown Grass Deserts ? In Summary, My View is that it's Singledom (InDependent), Heart-To-Heart (CoOperation), Head-To-Heart (Manipulation) or CoDependent Head-To-Head EveryBody; so, I Suggest YOU!!! ALL CHOOSE!!! Wisely nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... Warning EveryOne - Approximately About 12 Minutes Reading Time OverALL Out Of YOUR!!! 3DLife EveryOne Approximately About 1 Minutes Reading ON TIME (PUN DEFINITELY INTENDED) - Diamond Hard - 3DLinearTime is Definitly Relative EveryOne; so, I Suggest, Align with Energetic, Accurate 5DCylindricalTime, Immaculate Precision Timing, Being a Measure of Timing that Some Call Divine Timing EveryBody nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... Approximately About 1 Minutes Reading ON EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION; NEGATIVITY AND POSITIVITY - Diamond Hard - Active Listening is Positive EveryOne; while Waiting To Speak without Actively Listening is Negative, 'IN ONE EAR AND OUT OF THE OTHER' as We Glaze Over at We Perceive as Banal and Boring Words...yet Both Listening and Speaking Serve a Purpose like a Batterys Polarities; if YOU!!! Don't Like Being Ignored Change The Company that YOU!!! CHOOSE!!! to Keep EveryBody or Gently Persaude CHANGE!!! in The Other with ALL the Care, Kindness and Compassion YOU!!! can Muster along with ALL Those Firm Boundaries as The Other Slowly Opens Up, even Cries...ergo Too Much Positive is as Damaging as Too Much Negative Leading to The Negativism of Resentment; which (WITCH!!! ) is 'OH WOE IS ME, IT IS ALL YOUR!!! FAULT; YOU!!! ARE TO BLAME AND NEVER SPEAK WITH ME AGAIN' that is REPEATED!!! ad nauseum until ??? perhaps Civil, Polite, Courteous Conversation and Debate; or, Very Much Worse, Vengeance, Vendettas along with The Fury and Rage of REVENGE!!! Regretted in Most Circumstances nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ....... Approximately About 3 Minutes Reading ON EXPECTATION - Diamond Hard - I Did NOT!!! Lower My Expectations EveryOne; what I Did was to Change My PAM (Perception Attitude MindSet) about My Parentally ( http://www.ericberne.com ) Conditioned Expectations with PAT (Patience Acceptance Tolerance) EveryBody nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... ON BEING LIKE LIQUID RATHER THAN SOLID - Diamond Hard - Favour Fluid and Flexible Plans like Water EveryOne; rather than Rigid and InFlexible Plans like Stone that ARE eventually eroded by Water EveryBody nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... Approximately About 3 Minutes Reading ON FRUSTRATION, IRRITATION, ANNOYANCE AND RAGE IN EXISTING, EXPERIMENTING AND EXPERIENCING - Diamond Hard - Does This Sound Familiar EveryOne; Be Authentic, Honest and Genuine in YOUR!!! Answers in YOUR THOUGHTS!!! Advice and Comments please...because a Diplomat has a Good Way of Making Us Feel Bad; as put by Bill Cosby "Diplomacy is telling someone to GO TO HELL!!! and have them look forward to the journey." ? "Different Person; same shit Different Place; same shit Different Job; same shit Oh, WAIT!!! The Only Constant in ALL of This Shit is Me, MySelf, I; hmmm, maybe I Should Turn InSide, Do Some Inner Work and Admit, Acknowledge and Address My MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues) and Realise The Only Constant is Change and I AM Constantly Changing...thereby Shedding, Modifying and Adding Behaviours until I AM Satisfied, Sated and Content that I AM NOT!!! Being MEAN!!! to Others or, Much More Importantly, Being Very, Very, Very MEAN!!! to MySelf ; thus Being Able and Eager to Enthusiastically Grapple My Challenges in The NOW!!! ?" Basically Our CHOICES!!! and DECISIONS!!! ARE Internal, Our SubConscious Being 95% Manifestation, or Our Externally Conditioned UpBringing Conscious Being 5% Manifestation EveryOne; put Simply this means "DO AS YOU ARE TOLD OR ELSE!!!" or Do WhatEver The Fuck YOU!!! Like, Desire and Hope For... ergo, Simple yet Complex; because We ALL Have FUCKED UP!!! Minds and We ARE Constantly Getting CONFUSED!!! just when We Begin To THINK!!! We KNOW!!! OurSelves and THINKING!!! EveryBody Else Does NOT KNOW!!! let alone Understand Us Ergo, EveryBody, Simply and Complexly Exist, Experiment and Experience because Our SubConscious Fluid, Flexible Soul Plan KNOWS!!! Exactly what To Do and Speaks Softly to Our Brutally Conditioned Conscious; meanwhile We Continuously LEARN!!! then ENJOY!!! 95% of The 3DLinearTime and Endure 5% of The 3DLinearTime having Shed The Suffering of Our Abusive, Conditioned Parental ( http://www.ericberne.com ) UpBringing, The Really Dumb Conditioning and Returned to The Purity of Our ChildLike State with ALL The Benefits of Being a KiDult, a 'Grown Up' Kid who Realises and Recognises ( http://www.ericberne.com )...it's KISS ; which (WITCH!!! ) is 'Keep It Simple Silly' nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... Approximately About 1 Minutes Reading ON THE LURRRV!!! DIFFERENCE - Diamond Hard - True Love Requires No Conditions EveryOne; period (pun definitely intended) Falling/Being In Love "Relationships" Require an Extremely Extensive CheckList of, quite often, Impossible Demands and Dumb Conditions from One, the Other or Both with No Capacity for Compromise and Inevitable Break Ups So CHOOSE!!! Between ForEver After or Serial "Relationships" EveryBody; it's YOUR!!! CHOICE!!! so Don't Blame AnyOne Else please nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... Approximately About 1 Minutes Reading ON EXISTING, EXPERIMENTING AND EXPERIENCING IN 3D Clubbing - So, what, Exactly, is an Apology EveryOne; for example I Have Been Forced to Apologise and didn't mean it because I Totally Remained Convinced I Had Done NOTHING!!! Wrong and Apologised to Keep The Peace and Avoid a Beating, a Whipping or Any Other Form of Child Abuse, Assault In Law...as a Divorcee, Apologising to My Former Spouse led to Our Divorce because I wasn't "Man Enough" to Stand My Ground resulting in HER!!! Raging, Screaming and Shouting at Me in a Rage "NO COMMUNICATION EVER AGAIN!!! NEVER!!! EVER AGAIN" because I Was Too Soft NOT!!! Hard Enough for HER!!! (innuendo pun definitely intended) Lofty Requirements; basically, in My View, We ALL Have FUCKED UP BRAINS!!! and Don't Really Know How To Approach Apology in The Proper Way EveryBody, so, ALL of YOUR!!! Valid, Perennial THOUGHTS!!! Please EveryBody - Clubbing ? nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... Approximately About 1 Minutes Reading ON MADNESS AND BEING CRAZY MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues) ARE Steeped in Sordid, Sad STIGMA!!! EveryOne; it's Really WorthWhile Getting YOUR!!! Head Sorted Out, OtherWise Grow Grumpy and Old then Die a Miserable Death where The Majority of Mourners at YOUR!!! Funeral ARE Quietly, Happily Celebrating YOUR!!! Internment nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... Approximately About 3 Minutes Reading - Diamond Hard - ON BEING; REALLY BEING AND NOT!!! A WALKING DEAD ZOMBIE EATING BRAINS EveryThing We Experience is a Reality EveryOne The Vastness of Existence is Barely COMPREHENSIBLE!!! We Experience via Six Plus Senses Dreams ARE REAL!!! Imagination is REAL!!!! 'Fiction' is REAL!!! 'Real Life' is Stranger than 'Fiction' Important is as Important Does Close is as Far as Distant Energy is EveryThing and NoThing Sub Atomic is Where The Magic Happens CHOICES!!! ARE Ours DECISIONS!!! ARE Ours Pay Attention or Suffer The Consequences There is NO!!! Chance, Randomness and/or Coincidence just CHOICE!!! and DECISION!!! Have Gratitude and Appreciation for EveryThing YOU!!! Have and Have LOST!!! Letting Go and Acceptance ARE The Keys to Contentment Feeling Sated and Satisfied ...in Summary; please Pay Attention to: Signs Synchronicities Sub Atomic Space Suggestions Signals Guidelines Pointers ...please Pay FUCKING ATTENTION!!!... nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... Approximately About 3 Minutes Reading ON SUCCESS CLASS 101 AND RAINBOWS - Diamond Hard - Only YOU!!! Decide what Successful Means to YOU!!! How YOU!!! Succeed is Entirely Up to YOU!!! Clubbing - If Others Belittle YOUR!!! Successes YOU!!! ARE PERFECTLY ENTITLED!!! and Welcome to Tell THEM!!! to VERY KINDLY FUCK OFF!!! - Clubbing ...so, in Summary EveryOne, Successful Starts with Defining what Successful Means for YOU!!! EveryBody; basically Follow AnOther Person or Lead YOURSELF!!! is Essentially what it Boils Down To...ergo 3DLive The Dream of AnOther and Acheive Pyrrhic Victories, Fall Outs and Break Ups; or 3DLive YOUR!!! Own Dream which is 95% SubConscious and 5% Conscious...if They Walk Away; then that's 100% THEIR CHOICE!!! THEIR DECISION!!! and NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS!!!... nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... ON HAIKU Hurting and Healing Pain is No Big Deal Let Pain Rest Let Pain Heal nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... ON HAIKU Parenting If I Think I is Mad It is because of My Mom and Dad nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... ON HAIKU Painful WithOut Pain There is NO!!! Gain Sunshine and Rain nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... ON HAIKU Wordy Expression Words said cannot be unsaid Words heard cannot be unheard Words read cannot be unread nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... ON RESTING, RECOVERY, REFRESHING, RESETTING, RELEARNING AND RENEWING If We SEEK!!! Solutions rather than FOCUSSING!!! On Illusory PROBLEMS!!! Amazing Things Happen; it's OK To Rest, actually it's ESSENTIAL!!! to Rest EveryOne, that's The Only Way We Heal by Admitting  Acknowledging and Addressing Our MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues) from Our Conditioned UpBringing thereby Remaining Happily IMMORTAL!!! nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... ON HAIKU Hunger and Thirst I AM Human Yet NOT!!! Humane My Atrocities ARE So Many To Name nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ... ... ON HAIKU Disgusted So what I Do Is NOT!!! what YOU!!! Do I AM Much Worse or Better than YOU!!! nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... ON HAIKU Monetary Madness The Money Myth is This My Financial Feet YOU!!! Must Kiss Poverty is a Hit and Miss nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... ON HAIKU - Diamond Hard - Rage, Depression and GREY!!! No more colours Where have they have gone Is my purpose done and done ? nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... ON HAIKU - Diamond Hard - KnowMem (Memory, 3D, in Harmony with Knowing, 5D+) I Know THAT I Know I Don't Know WHAT I Know Until I Remember and Do Know nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... ON SELF LOVE - Diamond Hard - "I AM Me; if YOU!!! Don't Like Me then YOU!!! ARE Very Welcome to KINDLY FUCK OFF!!!" ~ Anon, http://www.ericberne.com nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... ON DYING The Only Person that Doesn't Mind They ARE Dead is The Dead Person; the Body may have Passed, Ashes to Ashes, Dust to Dust, yet the Essence (Soul), Consciousness (Observer) and Memories (Mind) Remain as Do The Remains of The Body in The Grave, an Urn or Scattered to The Wind on Land or Sea...as The Irish Say in The Wake of Death; please Also Celebrate The Bodily Life Lost while Grieving The Losses of Those Who Remain Behind and ARE ALIVE!!! EveryOne... because This is YOUR!!! 3DLife; so 3DLive It by Letting Grief and Joy Pass then Move, Authentically, On...ergo, InterChange, because The Only Constant is Change; just like Our Managing of Anxiety, Grief, Rage, Depression et al in The Moment so as to Remain Cool, Calm and Collected EveryBody nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit ...... Approximately About 1 Minutes Reading ON OPINIONS; APPROVAL AND DISAPPROVAL - Diamond Hard - So, YOU!!! Have Been JUDGED!!! and NOW, YOU!!! ARE a Raging Bull/Cow in a China Shop; hmmm, How Interesting...it's NOTHING!!! To Do With YOU!!! at ALL (Caveat Being YOUR!!! UnResolved, UnProcessed Buttons, Triggers et al from YOUR!!! Abusive UpBringing and ALL of The Further Trauma in Adulthood) Personally, I AM THINKING!!! JUDGING!!! is Totally Wrong EveryOne; but it's Much, Much, Much Worse to TAKE OUT YOUR!!! OFFENCE and RAGE!!! on Others EveryBody...because Other Persons Judgement of YOU!!! is Simply Their Individual, Personal Opinion of YOU!!! that YOU!!! ARE NOT!!! Obliged to Accept, Let Alone Act On, with RAGE!!! especially when DRUNK!!! or HIGH!!! on Drugs; instead CHOOSING!!! to REJECT!!! Such NONE-SENSE!!! and Removing Such Folk from YOUR!!! 3DLife Unless YOU!!! Truly Love Them from YOUR!!! Heart NOT!!! YOUR!!! Head nisi mortuus nec neque nolite vicit - Diamond Hard - ...... This free site is ad-supported. Learn more ​ Yernasia Quorelios | November 6, 2021 at 4:47 am | Categories: Relationship Insights | URL: https://wp.me/pBMdd-2Gz Comment    See all comments    Like Unsubscribe to no longer receive posts from Relationship Insights by Yernasia Quorelios. Change your email settings at Manage Subscriptions. Trouble clicking? 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