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Site logo image rheadopmeijer posted: " Looks and beauty, inner or outside? I chose to have the body of an Angel and the face of a clown. Nobody could see through my exterior to see the inner beauty I held. Or they fell in love with my body and its curves, lush and blooming, or they deteste" What is Love?

Looks and beauty, inner or outside?

rheadopmeijer

Aug 4

Looks and beauty, inner or outside?

I chose to have the body of an Angel and the face of a clown. Nobody could see through my exterior to see the inner beauty I held. Or they fell in love with my body and its curves, lush and blooming, or they detested me, calling me names and treating me harshly.

I chose to have this beautiful body and look like a witch or a gnome. So I could learn the lessons that came with these experiences, to learn how the exterior is no more important than the exterior, and it's in the eye of the beholder to see the beauty of both combined within the same, for the veil will be lifted, and the beauty presented, once you let go of just looks.

And then I saw a picture where people were mocking and joking about ugly girls with beautiful bodies. It brought to mind my own experience and memory about the choice I once made.

It's all one and the same coin, only people don't realize it. If you make fun at the cost of someone else, you only show your own fear of being mocked or made fun of. Any actions or words you use to bring someone down are only showing your own fear of vulnerability. So how can we turn this mechanism around if they still exist subconsciously?

When do we become aware of the process that's lying underneath any attempt to get more, to be more, to have more?

Is it through acknowledgment, or is it through awareness and then acknowledgment? Or should you allow the sense of fear that is the root of this need of being more, have more, make fun of, and be the bully, so you will not be bullied?

It is always a personal, individual journey as well as a team process. For in order to recognize you are just the flip side of the coin, you also realize you're both in it together to make a unique change of Heart.

We need each other to mirror and reflect and once we learn that imbalance is just the flip side of the balance, as is worthy and feeling unworthy, shameless and ashamed, the victim and the aggressor, we can act on it to create an inner process to bring back in the ease, to bring back in the Love that is blocked by fear, to soothe any experience that is the root cause.

Once you know you can change any situation by changing your perception and intention on the outcome by letting go of your own internal fear through Love, you will have not only changed your present, but you also have changed your past as well as the future.

You will never be able to go back to being ignorant, once you intend to be knowing of the wants and needs to change any outcome. And it has its immediate effect on anyone else you encounter when you keep on practicing the way of Love, instead of Fear.

And so it will be done.

High Self @RheaDopmeijer (c)

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