Feel like I have been caught in a copy of the Kafka book The Trial. My wife wants us to separate. Apparently its all my fault and over the past couple of years she has been difficult to communicate with. Cut a long story short if I ever try to engage with her I get very short closed answers. She tells me that she is giving up on one of our kids and washing her hands of him. Ignored him all weekend and then gave me a lecture a out ignoring him when he walked past me. WTF!! I was on the phone talking. Everything is twisted to around to make me the villain. She will even tell me to stop shouting at her when I talk in a normal tone and respond to one of her nasty put downs.
I explained to her she needs to take some responsibility herself for this separation. You cant play the hard nose bitch to friends and family and then moan at them for avoiding you.
It go so weird a year a go I recorded our convo and you would be shocked listening to her. I know I am being ghosted all the time and then gaslighted to make it my fault. I feel in despair. I am glad its over as I cant live like this. Presumably she has a game plan and sees me as the enemy. Do you want to go to the cinema .. No, pub… No… Bristol lights … No. she just avoids me and then blames me for avoiding her.
Dejected this morning.
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