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Transitionning: What you don't use, you lose

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Apr 29

No one should give you permission to know when it is the right time for you to share your gifts with others, and enjoy them. You have the power to make that decision only if you choose to stop ignoring the call. It's time to make the best use of your gift(s), and let your happiness overflow.

by ghislaine t vode

What if somebody handed you a gift today, and told you that the only way to enjoy that gift is to share it with others, talk about it, spread the joy,  give back whatever you make out of it…. Would you take the gift? Would you enjoy it?

Sometimes, the only thing wrong about a gift we have, is that we just don't take the time to explore it. And often times, we just don't always get to enjoy it?

I'm here today,  for those of us who feel left out, abandonned, underachieved,  or trapped  living the kind of life right now that they  feel they didn't ask for or deserve. Are you often asking yourself,  Am i getting ripped off"?  Is there any way out? IS it too late for me to be happy? "would things ever change"?My answer for you today is  "no, it's not too late", and yes, "it will (change) If you change your perspective . You may have never thought of this, but maybe you deserve more joy out of life than what you have been giving yourself.  If you are unhappy about the way your life is right now, I want to agree with you : something has to change. And that thing is your perspective.

Remember that time, when you got a brand new  gift from someone; a gift that you didn't ask for? Then you got nervous, took it but put it away, never opening that gift, because you just didn't want that gift in the first place, or because you feel you didn't need any gift at the Time? I'm here to tell you that Now is the right time to use your gift. How would you enjoy something that you never consider using?

 Gifts come in all shapes and sizes. Maybe is it cooking that you' ve always loved but never been curious enough to explore more? Or is it singing? Dancing? Painting? Gardening? Crafting ? When you start to appreciate what you have now, magic happens.  If you feel time is a gift, then time is all the gold that you need. I'm here as a testimony to someone, somewhere, that some gifts come at the oddest time in your life, under the oddest shape, form, or circumstances for a reason. Gifts are not meant to stay unwrapped forever. No matter how intimidated they seem, gifts have an expiration date because each of us has an expiration date (lol..sorry). What if you had today, all and exactly what the gift that you needed to be happy and you just chose to ignore it?

The cause of our unhappiness is not always linked to what we don't have. Sometimes, it comes from what we forget that we already have. And too many times, we forget that we already have what it takes, refusing to learn to use or enjoy it. Can anyone else feel that?  Maybe it's time you start seeing those unpacked gifts you' ve been holding on to, without ever opening them up and start exploring them.  Gifts are there to set us free, to  remind us that we are still alive, no matter what we already know. And therefore, it's never too late to live, and to enjoy.

Removing the limits we have put on our own happiness is necessary, and not impossible.  For some of us, happiness doesn't always feel right. It even feels odd, unnatural,  uncomfortable because of our backgrounds and life experience.Okay, i get it. Yet, i want to say this: you can learn to be happy.  Most gifts are within your reach, they are affordable, abundant and highly rewarding. You can practice using them, especially when they are not meant to be enjoyed alone. And enjoy yourself. It's still time for you to decide to unlock and use your gift today.

I didn't know writing, telling stories, speaking were gifts that could bring so much joy into my life until i started practicing them regularly  the more I practiced, the more it started changing the lives of people around me. The more it changed me. And better yet, it makes me truly happy. No strings attached.

No one should give you permission to know when it is the right time for you to share your gifts or enjoy them. You have the power to make that decision,  only if you choose to stop ignoring the call. It's time to make the best use of it, and let your happiness overflow. Unwrap that gift today,  because you are still here, and you need to know what that gift can do, and is already doing, for you. They have their magic to play in your life too. Now, Imagine your life as being such gift for example..would you turn that gift over, throw it away, or try and would you make the most of it ? would you hold on to it?

There are many ways to use a gift; but there's only one way to enjoy it.  when you enjoy a gift that you have, you are making the best use if it  Unpack and relax. I'm not here to make You feel guilty. I just want to encourage you.  You may be up for a surprise to know that you still have in you what it takes to adapt to all circumstances. And that gift is there to remind you of that. Isn't it why we are all here ? There's a time and a place, an age to dream or imagine your life. And when those "dreamy" lives take a long time coming, or when they are just too expensive to keep us motivated, or when they may never come, don't lose Hope. I have news for you. You are still gifted. You can adapt. Nobody is going to ask you for your gifts back.  my encouragement is: open that gift. Open what life is handing you. Today.

Happy Exploring !

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