After more than two years in Miami, I am willing to call it. I love living here in terms of the lifestyle, the kinds of people you meet (very international), and could see myself here long-term. In terms of pulling, I do think that a guy who has a lot of resources and good game while being high-value can do well in most large cities. As a city, I love Miami and I love its people overall.
Life is great in Miami.
Overall, I would say that life in Miami is great. I have made some great friends in this city and I love what this city offers. The culture is very international and unlike NYC and San Francisco, it is a mostly safe city. You do not have to walk out at night and worry about a homeless drug addict attacking you. The people are also pretty cool, they are not going around Cancelling everything they disagree with. If I had to spend the rest of my life in Miami, I would be super down for it.
But dating and meeting women is hell here.
In reality, I could go to most other major US cities, even San Diego and Los Angeles, and absolutely slay. I learned when I went back to NYC and got quite a few lays in a week. For some reason, running game in Miami has improved my outcomes with women just about anywhere else in the US. When I travel, I get laid. When I deal with any woman, I call out a shit test easily. Even rejections I get are lightweight compared to talking to some Miami girl in Brickell or at Regatta.
If you are a single guy in Miami, I feel for you. The city does not have a lot of quality women in it and the women in the city have perhaps the most toxic behavior I have seen out of any city. Yes, Miami women are worse than women in San Francisco, Boston, Seattle, and even DC when it comes to personality. So now that I have told you that Miami is such an awesome city but the women here absolutely blow, let's get into why.
The toxic women of Miami (kinda).
In NYC, the locals from the suburbs are usually crappy but the transplants that move to Manhattan from elsewhere are of quality. In Miami, the locals from places like Kendall are amazing but the transplants that move here for "work" and especially school are trashy. Here is what is mind-blowing, the same people that ruin Manhattan venues and turn them from quality spots into rundown "Bridge And Tunnel" places are the same exact people that ruin Miami. This applies to the women in particular.
You see, the thing is that a lot of the quality women in Kendall commit quite young to their high school and maybe college sweetheart. This is the norm with local quality women in most major cities or places you will go to. So what are you left with?
You are now left with the women of Miami and why the "kinda" in parentheses? Because the majority of the women you see in Brickell, The Grove, Miami Beach, and Downtown are not actually from Miami.
So what makes these women so unpleasant?
Here is the thing you will notice with the suburban "Bridge And Tunnel" crowds that ruin Manhattan venues and ultimately ruin Miami, along with other demographics that flood the city, they hate education. In other words, these are the kinds of people who somehow look down on the Ivy League-educated types in Manhattan and think that their glorification of mob life makes them an American Treasure.
If you look at Miami's culture, it is very anti-intellectual. Even Los Angeles, which has a reputation of being tough for game, has a lot of great universities like USC and UCLA. Great universities attract a lot of intellectuals and intellectuals tend to be classier. Contrary to what the Red Pill garbage tells you, not all intellectual people are man-hating feminists. As a matter of fact, sex-shaming and sleeping around are more common in religious cultures that shame education and worldly knowledge. Try having a decent sex life in flyover country USA and tell me how that works out for you.
Dumber people tend to fight more, gossip more, believe in religious self-righteous garbage (sex before marriage is a sin), etc. The other downfall of an anti-intellectual culture is not just dealing with lower quality people, it is also the economic opportunity, Miami doesn't have it like other cities do. Cities like Chicago, San Francisco, Atlanta, Boston, and NYC draw in thousands of college grads every year due to so many firms and employers being located there.
How does this impact dating? Educated women fresh out of college are open to meeting people and dating around.
The lack of economic opportunity also highlights the massive Sugar Dating culture that exists in Miami, women here don't have jobs, they have gigs. Miami women, as in women who move here, are bartenders, bottle girls, cocktail waitresses, strippers, etc. A lot of these women know that their career has a short shelf-life compared to a woman who is a doctor, accountant, lawyer, or consultant.
Sure, the NYC workaholic might have her looks somewhat fade with age but she has a nice paycheck and a salary that will keep increasing. As much as the Red Pill Clowns hate this, it means that this woman will be self-reliant and doesn't need a man for his money. A Bottle Girl or bartender at LIV will get replaced or burn out a few years into her job as her looks fade and has no promising career prospects other than an OnlyFans.
Women who work in looks-heavy professions where a large part of their outcomes are based on how good they look tend to get bitter with age as their looks fade. We all get bitter with age, especially men, but those of us who applied ourselves in a job that requires skills outside of our looks will see higher salaries as we get older.
Now let's look into the kinds of women that move to Miami.
One group of women are those that move here for college but the reality is, Miami is not exactly an academically prestigious city such as LA, NYC, DC, Chicago, Boston, or even Atlanta. So we can assume that the women who went to school in Miami were not the brightest kids in class. As someone who spent years in NYC, it was considered to be a major red flag amongst the Old Money if their kids went to a school that was not prestigious. At the very least, if outside of the northeast, they would send their kids to schools like Northwestern, U of Chicago, Stanford, Emory, USC, Georgetown, Duke, or Vandy.
So the kinds of "Yankees" that are flooding into Miami are not the Old Money that comes from class, it is the overcompensating New Money (at best) that tries to live life like a Martin Scorsese film. In other words, Miami is getting the dumbest, trashiest, and most overcompensating Yankees. So you are basically left with a Northern girl that has no class, is dumb as rocks, lacking in looks, and somehow gets an inflated ego when she moves to Miami.
The other thing to note is that the "Yankees" in Miami, unless they are Old Money that buys mansions here, are often overcompensating for a reason. Back in NYC, they would be reminded of the reality that their Long Island or Jersey home is a joke compared to the millionaire living in Manhattan who has a vacation home in The Hamptons. In Miami, where the cost of living is lower, such a Reality Check does not exist. Despite it not existing, the same Yankees down here know that deep down, they weren't that successful back home so they had to create a new life where they could inflate their own worth.
Next up, we have Latinas and Miami is one of the few cities in the US where you have to learn Spanish to communicate with them. I often tell people to be happy that Latinas exist in Miami because they are by far the highest quality women in the city. In fact, I cannot think of a better city in the US if you like Latinas than Miami itself. I give Miami Latinas the nickname of "Wonder Women" because they practically save the city's dating culture from utter demise. Meanwhile, the white women of Miami (more specifically of the American Variety) are what I refer to as Beelzebubs, not nearly important enough to be considered Satan but quite irritating to deal with.
Then we have the European expats that move to Miami, namely some rich Russians who have brought properties here. If you ever wanted to have a reason to dislike Russians, just interact with Russian women in Miami. I have interacted with Russian women elsewhere and nowhere else are they as money grubbing and parasitic as they are in places like Bal Harbour. The post is negative enough but let me tell you this much, avoid Russian women in Miami at all costs. Likewise, the European women that come to Miami do not come here for classy things, they come here to live the Sugar Baby life and get pampered.
To recap why Miami women are toxic.
- Most of the ones that move here are dumb and work vain jobs like Bottle Girl
- The culture is anti-intellectual
Then to add that the city's culture is basically Partying and Party Girls in general tend to be quite toxic.
So how does one make Miami work for them?
I love living in Miami. I love the people of Miami. I think the city is well-run and arguably one of the best big cities to live in the US. I think that there is a lot to admire about Miami.
So how does one have a relatively decent dating life here?
- Learn Spanish, I know it can be hard but do it
- Spend a lot of time on Tourists who are just as shocked as you when it comes to the culture here
- Learn to lose fast and not spend time with miserable sets that are not going anywhere
I will do more posts on Miami life and potentially even release an E-Book.
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